It is so great to find that almost all of the LPSG members are so helpful and considerate, no matter what their sexual orientation. People seem willing to accept others and post answers and tips, and in most cases they are friendly and open. This is not the type of interchange which you can always expect in some areas of the country. So I say, "Please keep up the harmony and good feelings." If you are one of the few who don't fit into the pattern described, please think about how you would like to be treated. Restrain your urge to be nasty or critical.