Connections Between Your Sex Buddies

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I am wondering if you've ever found your sex buddies' lives intersecting (or any other unusual connections of that nature). For example, back home, I was hooking up with this wonderful guy ("Joe") about 30 minutes from me. We had an amazing connections, could kiss and cuddle for hours. If I had been out to myself then, I might have dated him and had a nice life. He certainly had a thing for me as well. Anyway, he started dating someone, so he was no longer available; then, I found another great guy ("Ken") about 35 minutes in another direction. He tells me he about his regulars and that he used to meet up with a nice guy in this particular small town.

A year later, Joe breaks up with his guy and posts an ad on Craigslist looking for me, using my hook-up email fake name. Ken sees it, responds, and discovers it's Joe is looking for me. No one tells me this, and I reconnect with Joe. I'm having a fucking great time with Joe and Ken whenever it works out, and it turns out, they know each other, are FB friends, and used to hook up a lot until Joe started developing feelings for Ken. The guy Ken told me about the first day we met was Joe. Sexually, we were all sort of cut from the same cloth. I miss them both a lot. I thought it would be awkward after Ken told me this, but it somehow wasn't.

I chat with a guy who hooks up with a gay married couple, separately. The couple is open so it's no big deal, and he doesn't know if they know they each hook up with him. That same chat friend also once hooked up with his ex-boyfriend with his current husband.

I'm also curious if you have friends that started out as sex buddies and ended as just great, non-sexual friends. Is it awkward ever? Are you more physical with them even if you aren't sexual (i.e. touching ass, grabbing crotch). If it odd to be around that friend and your boyfriend/partner/husband?
 
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I'm also curious if you have friends that started out as sex buddies and ended as just great, non-sexual friends. Is it awkward ever? Are you more physical with them even if you aren't sexual (i.e. touching ass, grabbing crotch). If it odd to be around that friend and your boyfriend/partner/husband?
Yes, I have some very good friends who were sex buddies or lovers. It doesn’t feel awkward, in fact there’s a bond and closeness there I've found that makes things more comfortable. As long as the sex really is in the past and one or the other isn’t still hankering for it, and of course if the affair didn’t end bitterly.
 
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