I know sex is not evil or bad. As long as it's done with safety & fun in mind, I think sex is an amazing, perhaps UNDER-used gift. But as with most things, when you partake, there are consequences. Things that happen - good & bad - that can affect your life. Sometimes it's good - a baby, a closer feeling, an orgasm, release from stress, you name it. Sometimes it can be bad - a disease, a shameful feeling, embarrasment. What are some of the consequences of sex that YOU have experienced in your life? I'm particularly interested in hearing from people who are in relationships but go outside those relationships for gratification......