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Marriage is defined as a covenant or contract between an man and a woman. It is a contract down at the courthouse. It is a covenant at the church. You asked for "in my words" a through, well thought out treatise" explaining the conservative viewpoint. You didn't get it. From Monty, you even got almost total agreement except for semantics. I don't promise to cover the whole sphere of debate, but will cover at least some of it.
In the church, a marriage is a covenant between God, the man and the woman. the term marriage to most Christians is a concept that God himself ordained and established. To those Jews and Christians they see marriage as a rite of the synogue or church. They see the state as making it legal. Some really way out there don't even believe a person is married in the eyes of God unless the marriage is performed by a minister. Some churches even do a religious cermony after a civil ceremony so it will not only be legal in civil court, but a marriage in God's eyes.
Now that sound fine and good. But history shows that other cultures and socieities had and have marriages besides Jews and Christians. The ancient Greeks and Romans had marriage.
The "history book" answer, not the religious answer is that marriage is an insittution to protect the family. Foremost was to protect the children and then secondly to protect the woman who had no rights or privedges in most ancient culotures. So from a secular historical prespective, mairrage is an institution to protect the family that is to provide a setting for raising the children and for taking care of the woman finanacially all of her life. Her sons were to take care of her after the death of their father.
Now enter the desire of homosexuals to have all the rights and privledges of married couples.
The group of Christians who believe homosexuality is a sin are opposed to marriage for same-sex couples for a different reason than being given so far.
Because of the bluring of civil marriagae ceremonies and the religious ceremonies as long as the minsister has a license means that if same sex couples get married by a judge, it will be a matter of time before it will be commonplace in the church as well.
So the main opposiiton is that the fundie Christians fear that in time same-sex ceremonies will be religious as well.
There are two options as I see it. One would be for all civil and legal marriages concluded at the courthouse and let the public wedding be what it is a big religious and/or social event. A "ceremony" would not be required for the marriage to be legal.
The second option is to provide legal recgnition of the the same sex union.
If we call same sex unions marriage, the converative side says we will need to designate one as the husband and one as the wife. As in marrrige those are the terms that are used. Marriage results in a hsuband and wife.
One option would to legally use the term civil union with two spouses regardless whether it is same sex of opposite sex couple and let the term "marriage" strickly be a non legal, but a religious term. Personally I like that concept. Will it work? Not a chance in hell.
Another concept is to use the term civil union for same sex couples and both partners be refered to as spouses.and mariage for opposite sex couples. The rationale here would be that we have terms like husband, wife, Mr. Mrs. Ms. etc. And we have the pronoun he for men and she for women. Under this concept, the marriage and civil union would be indestinguishable when it comes to legal rights and responsibiities. They would be itendital.
Of course the most liberal want to use the term marriage for both same sex and oppsite sex couples. I think that we still would have the problem of what to call the same sex partners: spouses or one husband and one wife.
Of course the fundies want to stop time. By the definition of fundamentalism, that makes it so. Fundamentalists want all cultural aspects to be just like they were when... and then it depends on the fundie which society in the past he or she wants to return to.
Time can't be stopped. Change is going to happen. Oh we can have a small group here and there. But our American culure has had a society that has added equal rights to groups consistantly. First to get rights were the white men who owned land, then other white men who could read and write, then black men ins some areas of the country, then women, then the American Indian. Then finally all black people in the whole country. The process isn't complete yet and I dont' think anyone can hold back the progress of our country toward equal rihts for all.
I tried to explain the other side without bias. I tried to present that side as I have been told. I saw no reason to hide what I believed as as long as I said that it was my opinion.
Much more could be written, but this post is long enough as it is.
Marriage is defined as a covenant or contract between an man and a woman. It is a contract down at the courthouse. It is a covenant at the church. You asked for "in my words" a through, well thought out treatise" explaining the conservative viewpoint. You didn't get it. From Monty, you even got almost total agreement except for semantics. I don't promise to cover the whole sphere of debate, but will cover at least some of it.
In the church, a marriage is a covenant between God, the man and the woman. the term marriage to most Christians is a concept that God himself ordained and established. To those Jews and Christians they see marriage as a rite of the synogue or church. They see the state as making it legal. Some really way out there don't even believe a person is married in the eyes of God unless the marriage is performed by a minister. Some churches even do a religious cermony after a civil ceremony so it will not only be legal in civil court, but a marriage in God's eyes.
Now that sound fine and good. But history shows that other cultures and socieities had and have marriages besides Jews and Christians. The ancient Greeks and Romans had marriage.
The "history book" answer, not the religious answer is that marriage is an insittution to protect the family. Foremost was to protect the children and then secondly to protect the woman who had no rights or privedges in most ancient culotures. So from a secular historical prespective, mairrage is an institution to protect the family that is to provide a setting for raising the children and for taking care of the woman finanacially all of her life. Her sons were to take care of her after the death of their father.
Now enter the desire of homosexuals to have all the rights and privledges of married couples.
The group of Christians who believe homosexuality is a sin are opposed to marriage for same-sex couples for a different reason than being given so far.
Because of the bluring of civil marriagae ceremonies and the religious ceremonies as long as the minsister has a license means that if same sex couples get married by a judge, it will be a matter of time before it will be commonplace in the church as well.
So the main opposiiton is that the fundie Christians fear that in time same-sex ceremonies will be religious as well.
There are two options as I see it. One would be for all civil and legal marriages concluded at the courthouse and let the public wedding be what it is a big religious and/or social event. A "ceremony" would not be required for the marriage to be legal.
The second option is to provide legal recgnition of the the same sex union.
If we call same sex unions marriage, the converative side says we will need to designate one as the husband and one as the wife. As in marrrige those are the terms that are used. Marriage results in a hsuband and wife.
One option would to legally use the term civil union with two spouses regardless whether it is same sex of opposite sex couple and let the term "marriage" strickly be a non legal, but a religious term. Personally I like that concept. Will it work? Not a chance in hell.
Another concept is to use the term civil union for same sex couples and both partners be refered to as spouses.and mariage for opposite sex couples. The rationale here would be that we have terms like husband, wife, Mr. Mrs. Ms. etc. And we have the pronoun he for men and she for women. Under this concept, the marriage and civil union would be indestinguishable when it comes to legal rights and responsibiities. They would be itendital.
Of course the most liberal want to use the term marriage for both same sex and oppsite sex couples. I think that we still would have the problem of what to call the same sex partners: spouses or one husband and one wife.
Of course the fundies want to stop time. By the definition of fundamentalism, that makes it so. Fundamentalists want all cultural aspects to be just like they were when... and then it depends on the fundie which society in the past he or she wants to return to.
Time can't be stopped. Change is going to happen. Oh we can have a small group here and there. But our American culure has had a society that has added equal rights to groups consistantly. First to get rights were the white men who owned land, then other white men who could read and write, then black men ins some areas of the country, then women, then the American Indian. Then finally all black people in the whole country. The process isn't complete yet and I dont' think anyone can hold back the progress of our country toward equal rihts for all.
I tried to explain the other side without bias. I tried to present that side as I have been told. I saw no reason to hide what I believed as as long as I said that it was my opinion.
Much more could be written, but this post is long enough as it is.