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  1. D_Theobald Knutsak

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    Last night my buddy spent the night and we had the laptop playing porn and I stuck my hands down my pants and started stroking my cock then he did the same and after about 20 min I whipped out my dick and started to do my thing he replied with you could have warned someone and my ? Is is that considered to be gay?
     
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    No I don't consider watching porn and jacking off with a guy to be gay, especially if there was no cross touching, meaning you didn't touch his dick and he didn't touch your dick.
     
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    Yes. I'm not sure why someone would think that it's not? It does not matter if you touch the other guy or not.
     
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    The only thing that really matters is your intent. You seem to imply that you didn't think it was gay and that it was not your intention to "do something gay." Therefore, it wasn't gay. If you whipped it out because you wanted your buddy to do so too, for whatever reason, then it was at least a little gay. lol. Either way, it's hardly a big deal - don't make it into one.
     
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    that's called, guys hanging haha not gay at all
     
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    Sounds like he's just uptight and/or insecure. I mean why do it with your hand down your pants? That's lame. Pulling out your cock so you could do it right was the intelligent thing to do. That he had a problem with it -- is his problem.
     
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    Yup... you're gay now.
     
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    You just wanted to bust your nut, that's all.
     
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    Sounds like you forgot the beer, so no, it wasn't gay.
     
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    If I'm drunk.. then I wouldn't consider it gay.
     
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    Please educated me because it's obvious that I don't know: Is this a common activity among men? I know y'all watch porn together but to masturbate together? That's sounds gay. :33:

    I mean y'all are watching this on a laptop so I'm assuming you both were in close proximity to each other.

    If I was with another girl watching porn and masturbating that would be very gay. I like to masturbate alone or with someone I want to get it on with.
     
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    So far as being literal, it's only "gay"- involving a homosexual attraction -if you were masturbating to the image or thought of another man. Of course, the word "gay" also has a lot more social meaning and complexity than just "homosexual", so you're sure to disagreement on this.

    In other words: it might be gay if someone thinks it's gay, but it's probably not homosexual, since it sounds like you were masturbating to the (I assume hetero) porn.
     
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    I can definitely see how a heterosexual guy would feel uncomfortable if their with another guy who just whips out their member and starts going at it out in the open without warning. As far as I know it's just not something commonly done on a whim. Especially in America where we're not comfortable with our bodies, or sexual activities period.

    Although even before you took It out, if he had a problem with that, I would think that he'd have a problem with the 2 of you masturbating in concealment next to each other in the first place. Of course there's no getting around just taking it out if he's like that. Did you both finish?
     
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    On the road to Homoville? No. But yeah, you could have showed some manners and asked if he was comfortable with it first. I am gay and I would have done that with a friend of mine. Unless, of course, your intent was otherwise and in that case you're really asking a different question.
     
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    what was the porn? and were your balls touching his?
     
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    I don't think it's gay unless you intended it to be gay. I have two male friends that masturbate together somewhat often while watching porn. It's not gay for them. They sit on different couches and just watch the porn. They don't get off on each other getting off. It's more of a "male bonding" moment than anything.
     
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    It's as everyone's been saying- all about intent. And it's normal to experiment with your sexuality if you're in your late teens. Guys have guy-guy thoughts from time to time, just most chose not to act on it.
     
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    Gayest thing ever
     
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