Consider Myself Bi, But Haven't Done Too Much Because Of Femenine Preferences

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Hi folks, I'm a bi guy who considers themselves sexually bi. Not into m/m relationships outside of non-sexual relationships with male friends of course. I have never really been into the "masculine energy" type of person, so when I have been with a guy it's been with femine men, and I have been with transsexuals. Relationship-wise, I've only been intimate with women. I can't really "lie in bed" with a guy that's not very femine, and have only done a bit when having a bi threesome with husband and wives I've been with in the past. I do watch gay porn that involves all types of men, but being at a distance is something I can get aroused by, but not when it's in person. I'm not really looking for a "solution" but I think it makes me very picky and of course I don't have the pick of the litter when it comes to hookups because I just don't vibe with mascuilne guys as I would with a very feminine twink. Anyone on the same boat.
 

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you're certainly not alone. i think there are more guys like this than they care to admit. societal pressure will most likely oppress those feelings deep down where the light don't shine however it's always there.

i think that if guys were given the chance in a very safe environment and no one would ever know, it would probably happen more than not.
 
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I really like femme guys. Young men too. Personally I’m not against more manly men, but my preference definitely does lie with more girly boys. A lot of gay or bi men like so called ‘straight acting’ guys too, but I honestly like a man that is quite obviously queer.
Oddly though, my taste in women is quite the reverse! I am attracted to tomboys and slightly more masculine women.
 

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You like what you like. If we were all the same, what a boring world this would be. Just as you gravitate towards certain food choices, cars, friendships, how you spend discretionary money, this is no different.
 

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No real like experiences here yet... But as far as online male pics and such, I like mostly shaved men (if I was to pick a side). My naivety to the bi "scene" sets some stereotypes I'm hoping to see a false.

First: Feminine men tend to be the bottoms. Maybe it's just the media projecting this falsehood? Don't know.

Second: The guy with the bigger dick, and or is built, and or is furry... Tend to be the top. That's what I tend to find on the personal ads as well.

So I like many others I'm looking for the unicorn: A sexy lean older guy with little hair (none at the cock, balls, and ass). I too am not looking for the masculine man. Don't think kissing will be on the plate (except on our cocks). So yes, no connection yet as I have restrictions.
 
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I was in the same boat when I first started topping guys in my early 20s but that's because I was pursued by effeminate bottoms. It took a few years to discover that non-fem gay/bi men were attracted or pursuing me because they were much more subtle or even reticent about it. As time went on I picked up on those subtleties and started topping masculine bottoms. Some in the masculine group were oral-only cock worshippers.

I can be as picky as anyone no matter where a guy falls on the masculine-feminine spectrum. :cool:

I should add that over my four decades of adulthood I've been far more interested in women than men.