Constant Pumping or Not?

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    Hey everyone,

    I was wondering if you women like constant, hard thrusts to acheive orgasms, or do you like slower thrusts? Can you orgasm from a thick cock just 'sitting' in your vagina, from the stretched out feeling, or do you need some type of heavy friction? The reason that I ask is because I've been working on some tantra that emphasize soaking in orgasmic energy from penetration with little to no thrusting, but kegel pumping from each partner. I myself can orgasm without ejaculating just from nipple stimulation and even from visualization if I'm super horny. Thanks for all the replies in advance!
     
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    I don't like hard constant pumping. It can get painful. Better to switch speed from fast to slow and to everything in between.
     
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    I like the idea of feeling filled up but I don't know if I could orgasm just from that sensation. Well, correction. I could orgasm, but I don't know that I could have an intense orgasm that way. I agree with wonderland - switch it up. On the other hand, if you've studied and you're that talented, then maybe that would do it. :smile:
     
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    I think for me, it's all about timing. Like others have said variety is very nice. I usually enjoy slow and deep at the beginning and then a nice variety. I guess because I don't get sore easily and I can have orgasms from labia-tugging, I actually do enjoy steady periods of constant thrusting from a guy who is thick enough to give some nice friction. If I'm close to orgasm a well-timed period of nonstop harder thrusting can hit the jackpot but too hard for too long isn't the best, although I'll let the guy know if I want him to take it easy. I can't orgasm from a cock just sitting there, I need the movement and friction. With my g-spot orgasms it can be more about the pressure for the buildup but it's still the thrusting that gets me over the top. As you can tell from the responses every woman is going to have her own preferences.:biggrin1:
     
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    Thanks for all the replies!

    Variation makes sense. It's funny that pornography seems to only emphasize the hard, fast pumping that is almost non-stop. It's too bad that such pornography can easily ingrain the idea that constant thrusting is the only way to please a woman.
     
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    Yes, if someone watches a lot of porn actually thinking that's how to do it, that could be a problem. But remember the women in porn are getting paid so if she doesn't orgasm oh well. I have higher goals!:tongue:
     
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    Anaconda, puhleeze don't ever confuse the porn world with the real world... I don't even think the porn stars do that. :tongue:
     
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    I enjoy very slow and deep thrusting majority of the time. It makes the cock feel larger to as i feel all of it and not say only half the length as what mostly happens with fast hard thrusting. The only time i do like it hard and fast is for a quickie or when im building up to orgasm.

    Also i very much doubt i could orgasm for a cock just being inside of me no matter how large or thick it is, the stretching is nice but i need the movement, stroking and rubbing for enough stimulation to have an orgasm.

    There is nothing worse than a man who pounds away thinking he is doing the right thing when in fact he i doing nothing more than hurting me, especially if he is large and is hitting the back of me too hard.
     
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    you dont have much sex do you?
     
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    I like slow and easy at the beginning. Then he could go deeper and sometimes just holding me there and putting gently increasing pressure at the very end of my vagina can just make me crazy. When I get close to coming, I like him to really thrust hard and fast into me (but be careful if he's longer than I am). And the when I do come he should keep thrusting hard and then just shove it in as far as he can and hold it there when I'm coming. Sometimes that'll make my orgasm last a helluva long time!:tongue:
     
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    Like all speeds....but there's nothing like hard, fast, and deep to take my breath away.....

    So .....hard - fast - deep has to be there sooner or later.....
     
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    I'm still figuring out more and more what I like so this all might change :smile: . But when I get close to cumming I usually like him going faster and harder, sometimes it makes my climax so much bigger. I've never had an orgasm just from him sitting in me but I dunno about that. I suppose anything is possible!
     
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    Yeah Pirate Wench! You said it!:tongue:
     
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    Thanks for all the replies, ladies!

    Seems like a good consensus is that hard and fast while you're cumming intensifies orgasm.
     
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    Yes, and the guy should also go hard and fast until he starts shooting, because I think that might make his more intense, too. After all, you're supposed to slow down after you cross the finish line, not on the approach. :wink:
     
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    Don't know if 5 or 6 woman is a consensus, but I definitely sense a tread. Not that I been with a lot of women, but only one could come really hard from slow or slower thrusting. All the others liked to mix-it-up then go hard and fast near or at orgasm.

    Don't think I necessarily need to be fucking hard and fast for an intense orgasm though. I've been with a few women who were especially good at moving and using their hips. In those cases, the sex wasn't particularly that hard or fast, but my orgasms were as intense as harder and fast pumping ones. Just depends on the woman and the situation I guess though.
     
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