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Lmao you got me. Sorry I come off as defensive sometimes due to my past it's all good. Man I understand about the freezing up part I do sometimes you just have to let it come naturally and talk with confidence and try to have a positive mindset easier said than done though. I'm sure there are alot of women your age out there just have to go to certain places your age women hang out.

Its not that I cant approach, it just comes down to literally not having anything to say and it just turns into this moment of really awkward silence lol, also doesn't help since I don't have any friends to keep the conversation going lmfao.
 

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Its not that I cant approach, it just comes down to literally not having anything to say and it just turns into this moment of really awkward silence lol, also doesn't help since I don't have any friends to keep the conversation going lmfao.

Lmao same my friends stopped talking to me but it ain't stopping me from being on here so fuck it!
 

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Lmao you do have a point. Yeah my friends tell me the same thing but when you still live with your parents no vehicle no money no job at the moment you have ALOT of doubts in your head and women I believe would find all of this unattractive. I'm sure there's a rare one that would accept but today's world isn't easy my man.

Well, maybe you should focus on getting some of those things settled before looking for a GF. I know that isn't exactly great advice but I think if you got some of that stuff in order you may be more confident with what you have to offer.
 
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Well, maybe you should focus on getting some of those things settled before looking for a GF. I know that isn't exactly great advice but I think if you got some of that stuff in order you may be more confident with what you have to offer.

Exactly when I did have a job had a car had money man I got calls women would contact me everything but since all of that is gone none do and my friends barely wants to chill anymore but hey it shows who the real people are in your life. Your right though I do thanks.
 

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Exactly when I did have a job had a car had money man I got calls women would contact me everything but since all of that is gone none do and my friends barely wants to chill anymore but hey it shows who the real people are in your life. Your right though I do thanks.

It sounds like what you are going through was a great way to "cull the herd', meaning you were able to rid yourself of the fake people in your life. I think when you get all this stuff settled you'll come out leaner and meaner, with a greater sense of self confidence and a bit more individual strength, which the vast majority of people don't have at all.
 
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It sounds like what you are going through was a great way to "cull the herd', meaning you were able to rid yourself of the fake people in your life. I think when you get all this stuff settled you'll come out leaner and meaner, with a greater sense of self confidence and a bit more individual strength, which the vast majority of people don't have at all.

I couldn't agree more and I bet once I do get myself back with all of those things they'll be the first ones to be calling my phone wanting to hang out. Hmm where were yall when I was at my lowest point? Exactly. Thanks man glad you understand I usually have negative and non understanding people in my life glad I found someone that does it's sad but true.
 

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I couldn't agree more and I bet once I do get myself back with all of those things they'll be the first ones to be calling my phone wanting to hang out. Hmm where were yall when I was at my lowest point? Exactly. Thanks man glad you understand I usually have negative and non understanding people in my life glad I found someone that does it's sad but true.

Yeah, if that does happen just totally write them off, I'd rather be alone than have a bunch of people like that in your life. I've gone through a lot of shit in my young adult life and though they were rather difficult experiences I was able to become a much stronger person because of them. I'm not going to hijack your thread, and I really don't feel like disclosing some of these experiences on here, but I've experienced total alienation before and the feelings that were associated with it, I kind of compare myself to Christian bale's Bruce Wayne in "Batman Beings" when he disappears and leaves Gotham behind for several years.
 

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Yeah, if that does happen just totally write them off, I'd rather be alone than have a bunch of people like that in your life. I've gone through a lot of shit in my young adult life and though they were rather difficult experiences I was able to become a much stronger person because of them. I'm not going to hijack your thread, and I really don't feel like disclosing some of these experiences on here, but I've experienced total alienation before and the feelings that were associated with it, I kind of compare myself to Christian bale's Bruce Wayne in "Batman Beings" when he disappears and leaves Gotham behind for several years.

It's all good I've gone through alot of shit in my teens also and honestly I've been alone most of my life anyway so it won't bother me to cut them off just sucks all I've done for them and they just don't see the good come from it oh well their loss. No worries man no need to worry about hijacking it I'm sure there will be someone reading through our convo and either quote and say something about it or 2 answer my question which either one is fine by me. Negativity will be ignored and I'll carry on. Stay strong my man and I'll do the same.
 
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