Constantly in the Mood?

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  1. D_Alma Lovin

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    Ok...I hope i don't catch too many smart comments for this post but I am asking an honest question.

    Here it goes....

    So my girl and I have been together for about a year now and the sex is amazing. She is 27 and I am 24. A lot of times I find myself sitting in bed wanting her and she just seems as if she is not having it. She keeps telling me that it is because her sex drive is just not as up there as mine. Which got me thinking, is there something wrong with me.

    I have a very quick recovery time and i find myself wanting more and more even after we both climax. Sometimes I feel bad even initiating sex because she is just not in the mood. Eventually I get her there but I wish she would just initiate from time to time...


    is there anything wrong with me?
     
  2. D_dvbWsdv

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    dude honestly I'm just as insatiable, there have been times where I've literally wanted to go 5 or 6 rounds, we just have really high libidos...its a curse lol, I think it has something to do with having a really large penis...idk if theres a correlation but thats my theory lol.
     
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    In my experience, most men have a lower sex drive than I do, so it's comforting to hear the opposite ..... (too bad you have a gf, LOL)

    Seriously though....it's possible her sex drive is not as up there. I talk to women and men about this all the time, and I am one of the few women I know who thinks about/wants sex as often as I do. At least once every 5 minutes, more when I'm around acquaintances who have sex on the brain like I do. The majority of women (LPSG women excluded!!) simply aren't sexually-driven.

    On the rare occasion I met a guy with a higher sex drive, he was content to watch porn while I rested. :smile:



     
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    Internet porn and cheese doodles have the same effect on me.
     
  5. D_Alma Lovin

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    Thank your for your insight. I appreciate the truth. Nice to talk to a fellow floridian.

    Before I had a gf I typically dated older women (aka cougars) because they typically had a higher sex drive. Now that I am "tied down" unless she is willing to share (she is not).

    I have to say I do at times miss sex with a cougar....just don't tell my gf that....
     
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    This is me too guys! My wife's sex drive and mine are on two different wavelengths constantly! She is satisfied if we do it a couple times a week, where I could do it many many times a day if I had the chance! She actually calls it my sex "overdrive"... I think it is just part of being a guy and having a dick... No matter what we do to try and conquer our needs and wants sexually, it just is never going to totally happen! LOL!
     
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    I don't naturally have a super high sex drive. Mine is respectable. If my moods shift manic though, I can't go enough times to satisfy the craving.

    Maybe you're manic. :)
     
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    Most women will not initiate sex. They will give you hints though. As far as your sex drive, just pretend its not a big deal....control yourself. Who am I kidding, I cannot even control myself.
     
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    Like cougarblue, I have an extremely high sex drive - it's stronger now than when I was 20. Don't have my guy, but if I did, I'd never let him out of bed. Think about it, dream about it, want it, miss it. Always.

    Celibate for 4 1/2 years because I can't have sex without love, am not a slut, but I'm horny as the dickens all the time. :rolleyes:
     
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    I think for many women libido has to do with age, health, stress, and whether or not they exercise. The more active they are and the better they feel about themselves, the hornier women are. I'm in my thirties, and I could have sex several times a day every day! Big change from my twenties when a couple times a week was enough.
    That's why being single now really sucks!
     
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    My gf and I both have high sex drives and enjoy having sex 3-4 times a day when we are together. We are 44 and 52 yrs old and in good shape so it isn't hard to do that ;)
     
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    I cannot ever get enough of my husbands cock, I love the feel of it inside me. He has spoiled me with his dick. He is so good with it I have started to precum just thinking about it. We have sex at least 2-3 times during the week and usually twice on the weekend. 14 years and counting, we are just like teenagers who can't keep their hands off each other.

    (Public places are the best for a quickie)
     
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    DAMN WOMAN !!!!!

    4 1/2 years?!?!?!?!?!? I'd go INSANE.

    New thread for you, FemaleLgcocklvr :)

    "How long can you go without"


     
  14. jockmaestro

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    My wife has never had the same drive as me. Consequently, I think most women are not up to men's drive. It's disappointing, to say the least. Stick with a guy; at least they can keep up.
     
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    I certainly wouldn't be able to control myself either around your cock.
     
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    Most women don't initate sex, but a good relationship is when you are both have similar sex drives. I don't think there is much joy in either going without too often, or having a partner who is doing it but isn't really into it. In the longer term, women who do the latter tend to shut down and just say no after a while.

    I am fortunate that my wife and I have similar sex drives, and she and I both enjoy sex every second or third day as the decades pass, and maybe four times in three days on a recent spring weekend away! Even though I may initiate, she is almost always willing.
     
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    God gave you a right hand, dude. Use it.
     
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    I'm constantly in the mood also.After two rounds of sex I normaly jerk afterwards.best feeling in the world.
     
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    I don't have a girlfriend :tongue:
     
  20. whatireallywant

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    I've had the problem with guys having a much lower sex drive than me. And it isn't just that I'm in my 40s (you hear a lot about cougars, and women in their 40s having higher sex drives than younger women, but I had this sex drive in my 20s and 30s, too). And yes, I'm a woman who initiates sex!

    I've mentioned this before in other threads, but I have a combination of being very shy, don't have a great body (more "average"), and tend to date guys with chronic health problems (not necessarily because of my self esteem issues - most of my female friends also have chronic health problems. I think it actually has more to do with my background growing up - my parents both have/had chronic health problems, and so did all their friends!) The reason I mention the chronic health problems in the guys I date is that these health problems affect our sex life. A lot of ED problems and such. While I know they can't help it and that they have an illness, it's still very frustrating. So I can be sympathetic but still frustrated at the same time.

    And I worry that I'll spend the rest of my life only having sex an average of 2-3 times a year, like I've spent the last 25 years... (My ideal is closer to 2-3 times a day!)
     
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