well...i must say i didnt expect so much preaching on a web site for men to show pictures of their penises. anyway, among our problems is im slightly larger than average, and she's smaller than average. we've been to counsellors, sex therapists (including a famous one who's been on oprah many times) and marriage counsellors. our physical troubles apparently cant be overcome unless we have lots of sex. she wont, because "it hurts too much" her gynecologist says shes very small, and agrees lots of sex will help loosen her up, but she wont. she's also a prude, wont try the smaller dildos, and working up to larger ones, as has been suggested, and oral sex is almost completely out of the question. even a handjob is "dirty", unless i wear a condom, then i might get one twice a year. now, im no prince, but i work very hard so she could be a stay at home mom, and i cook almost every meal, do most of the laundry, plus keep the house and yard in order. i've tried everything i can think of to help this situation, nothing seems to work. i have 3 college educations to pay for, and a lawyer advised me on what i'd be paying in a divorce, and i would no longer be able to pay for college. so...im not just trying to get some strange tail, just trying to cope with a bad situation, and keep my sanity. thanks for the replies.
