I tend to cum faster than my guy and often cum hands free when he's fucking me, and he likes to finish inside me so he keeps fucking me. Is there a way to train yourself so that's more comfortable? Everything tightens up after I cum and I often find it unbearable for him to continue.
I usually don't cum until after the top, but if it happens, I have him stop, but keep his cock inside me, and let me rest that way for 5 or 10 minutes, with him not moving, or hardly moving at all. And after that break period I'm usually okay to go again.
as a top, do you know how hard it is mid fuck, to stop, stay in your guy and not move? better to pull out, and do other stuff whilst you recover ready to start fucking again - in my view.
fortunately for me, my guy likes me to continue fucking if he's cum before me, and tbh, I love it too as he gets so much tighter again - bliss - though I know he struggles sometimes having tightened up again; if too tight, I will stop and start the foreplay bit again with him.
This for me hardy ever happens. Most of the time my top guy cums long before I do. But the few times it has, that's been what's happened. We both just take a rest for a while, his cock never leaving my hole, and then I'm good to go again. I'm sure it doesn't work for everyone.
Maybe you can show me in person sometime how you do it.
As a bottom I love my top to keep going after I had cum. It gets very intense and it turns me on to have him plow away.
If I came and he hasn’t, he can continue until he does. I’m just a hole, sir
I usually outlast tops, but every time a top has fucked me good enough to make me cum, I've had multiple orgasms so I just hang in there
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If I cum before my man, he can keep going untill he cums as long as it takes. He loves to cum inside me and I'd never ask him to stop even if it's uncomfortable
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Like everything, a lot of it is training your body to go for long periods and forcing yourself to keep having sex. Try practicing on toys and make yourself keep going. As with things like fisting, a lot of it is mental, and you have to really WANT to experience more. Jerking off and forcing your body to start the erection and cumming process immediately after will also help.
as a sub bottom it is not mine to ask him to stop, rather i enjoy the feeling of him working through the constrictions and having him fill me with his cum.
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Yeh, I too don’t like the feeling after I cum, so I usually try to hold off until the top cums first, but in the rare occasion that I do cum first then I just let him keep going, I guess.
If I cum first, I tend to only be able to take dick for a couple minutes later, which usually doesn't take too much longer for the top.
I fucked a friend once who was so hot that after I came in him, his ass held my cock inside until I got hard again and continued fucking. It's happened only once, but I sure loved it--and so did he.
Usually after 20 minutes or so of topping me I'll get unconfortable for me. So unless my BF is using a LOT of lube and alternating strokes and depth, I will politely, yet firmy, ask him to make me his cumwhore unless he wants to have a serious case of blueballs...
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I love it when a bottom can cum and still take dick. Swallowing this load while I fuck him makes me so horny. Or even better - scooping up his load, rubbing on my dick, and fucking his load back into his hole. Cum is so hot.
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I found with experience it gets easier. If I cum first I don't stop the guy as I'd rather he get to keep going and blow his load inside me
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