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What are you using and has it always worked?
My wife prankned me tonight saying she was pregnant turns out she had a feeling she was and did a test which was negative.
We have to young boys and love them to bits but honestly couldn't handle any more plus there would be space issues moving to a bigger house etc.
So as you can imagine I shit myself for a minute! Had to see the clear blue myself before I could relax. She's been taking the pill which seems to be working fine, it worked fine for 2 years until we tried for a family but even if it failed back then, at least we wanted kids eventually anyway so it wouldn't have been as big of a deal whereas now a third child would not be ideal (as much as I'd love to have lots if practically possible)
So what are my options? My wife doesn't like the sound of a coil/implant, and I don't even know how effective they are.
Neither of us want to be using condoms, as it does kind of kill the moment plus I end up going limp while putting it on.
Pulling out seems boring. Iv suggested trying anal, but realistically I dont think she likes the sound of it.
Could get a vasectomy but what if I need my balls again? I'm actually scared to continue having sex in case the pill lets us down now
My wife prankned me tonight saying she was pregnant turns out she had a feeling she was and did a test which was negative.
We have to young boys and love them to bits but honestly couldn't handle any more plus there would be space issues moving to a bigger house etc.
So as you can imagine I shit myself for a minute! Had to see the clear blue myself before I could relax. She's been taking the pill which seems to be working fine, it worked fine for 2 years until we tried for a family but even if it failed back then, at least we wanted kids eventually anyway so it wouldn't have been as big of a deal whereas now a third child would not be ideal (as much as I'd love to have lots if practically possible)
So what are my options? My wife doesn't like the sound of a coil/implant, and I don't even know how effective they are.
Neither of us want to be using condoms, as it does kind of kill the moment plus I end up going limp while putting it on.
Pulling out seems boring. Iv suggested trying anal, but realistically I dont think she likes the sound of it.
Could get a vasectomy but what if I need my balls again? I'm actually scared to continue having sex in case the pill lets us down now