Controlling the Sensation - Premature Ejaculation

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  1. Splendid

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    Okay - time to get personal. I find it really hard to hold off when I´m fucking my boyfriend. I would really like to give him and I more pleasure, but I get to the edge so easily. I´ve tried different stop/start techniques and thinking of something bizarre to stop me feeling so horny... I just want to be a better lover...

    Also... I find my dick won´t get hard enough to penetrate a second time... And tips? And don´t say viagra - sure it´s an option, but I don´t want to rely on tablets. I´m only a young guy - 28 tomorrow...

    Ideas from far and wide welcome. Cheers.
     
  2. Bryan_Lyte2

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    Three things come to mind. One, you are young so you will come to the edge quickly, it's natural. Two, Is he really tight, or you really thick? Either will give you more sensation when having sex as you will constantly be feeling more rubbing between your penis and his insides. Three, have you talked to him about how long it lasts? You may be making a big fuss out of nothing, He might be enjoying the shorter ride rather than the entire road trip.

    If you are answering yes to that last question and your partner said that you are shooting too quickly, than try something new some positions feel better for him. If you can make him feel good it dosen't matter how long you go for. Also, one last question, Have you or will you try it with a rubber cockring? You might cum quicker but you'll be able to get ready for round two a lot sooner (from what I've heard).
     
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    Here's a few ideas:

    More foreplay, oral, and rimming for him before you start fucking would stretch things out.

    You could also go down the toy route.

    I imagine if you put on more than one condom, it would decrease the sensation. I've never tried it.

    As for round 2, I haven't found a solution. At least with my current BF, we do a lot of everything else before we get around to fucking, so by the time round 1 is over, we're both exhausted and very satisifed.
     
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    Putting on more than one condom is a good way to just wind up with torn condoms. The latex can very easily create additional friction amongst itself and rip. There are products at most drug stores that can be used to decrease sensation temporarily and thus extend how long you can go.

    Aside from that... practice practice practice? Helped me and is way more fun.
     
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    Practice is a good idea - When you masturbate,try bringing yourself to the edge and holding off several times.
     
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    My advice? Get in a rhythm of varying short quick strokes where you don't penetrate with your whole cock, and the slower deeper strokes all the way in. For instance, three short quick shallow strokes, then three slow deep ones, then do four of each, then two, then five of each, whatever. it feels really good to get fucked that way, and...it gives you something to concentrate on besides when you're going to blow. it helps me a lot. and, as i say, it's a great way to be fucked. feels great on both ends.

    and now that i'm thinking about it...i can't stop thinking about it. :smile:
     
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