Conversation vs. Competition

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I think women can be even more competetive than men, it isn't about our bodily parts that we're competetive but pretty much everything else.

yah you girls tend to be overly critical of your bodily parts
but not necessarily competitive
unless you happen to be blessed with a giant rack
at least from what I've noticed
 

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The things that females probably brag about are......A. How much money the guy that wants to date her has......or how much money the guy has spent on her. B. How many guys are asking them out. C. And how much money her family has. D. Her interests.....

Not all women are high maintananceto men.

all women are high maitanence !

and thenumber one thing women brag about is how independent they are
even if they are not
I work with a girl who took a break from asking her boyfriend to drive up to work to get her spare key to her cus she had locked her keys in her car (again), to tell me how independent she is
now that is some bullshit
I have told her a dozen times, put the spare key in your purse!
she always grabs her purse before she gets out of the car but not her keyes see
but she's too INDEPENDENT to listen to me, so instead she calls on her bf to rescue her
very self reliant you see
I guess in the female mind if you are the one that makes the phonecall to get the help, you did it yourself?
 

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women can be extremely competitive with one another and take it very personally. that's where a lot of cattiness comes from, and why women always seem to get into so much interpersonal drama than men. women compete with each other about far more than sex. i find it hard to be around a lot of other mothers with kids because i get so sick of hearing ad nauseum every little things their little genius einsteins did today including taking the world's cleverest shit in their diaper. that's just one example. while working for and even with other women can get into all out warfare if there's just one woman who gets her nose out of joint about another female coworker. it can get very ugly. when competing for men's attention-- well, it's all over LPSG. however sometimes this stuff flies right under the radar of men who just want to look at tits and ass. i'm not saying i'm innocent of this kind of behavior, i just don't like it in myself or in others.

and hotguy, you have no idea.
 

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Women also learn that being assertive is not feminine and will most likely earn them the "bitch" label. To avoid that label, they turn to manipulation to get what they want. Of course, then they're labeled as devious. You guessed it. You can't win.

it's all well and good to try to blameshift
but people are responcible for thier own actions
you can't blame society for the fact that so many women act devious simply by saying they are trying to avoid being called bitches
like devious is somewhat less
if there was not a predispossition towards it the numbers wouldn't be as high as they are in favor of deviousness compared to assertiveness
 

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it's all well and good to try to blameshift
but people are responcible for thier own actions
you can't blame society for the fact that so many women act devious simply by saying they are trying to avoid being called bitches
like devious is somewhat less
if there was not a predispossition towards it the numbers wouldn't be as high as they are in favor of deviousness compared to assertiveness

Well, most women are devious. It's part of human nature.

I don't think women avoid being assertive because they don't want to be labelled a "bitch". Assertiveness just isn't in their nature.

Same with men being more assertive than devious.

Rob <3
 

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it's all well and good to try to blameshift
but people are responcible for thier own actions
you can't blame society for the fact that so many women act devious simply by saying they are trying to avoid being called bitches
like devious is somewhat less
if there was not a predispossition towards it the numbers wouldn't be as high as they are in favor of deviousness compared to assertiveness

This is one of the most retarded things I have read on here in quite some time.
 

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Well, most women are devious. It's part of human nature. :wtf1: :tool:
I don't think women avoid being assertive because they don't want to be labelled a "bitch". Assertiveness just isn't in their nature. :aargh4:

Same with men being more assertive than devious.
Rob <3
Are you for real? Have you ever met a woman in real life? Or are you basing your ridiculous opinion on reruns of Dynasty?:mad::eek:

All women are high maitanence !
and the number one thing women brag about is how independent they are even if they are not. :rolleyes:
I work with a girl who took a break from asking her boyfriend to drive up to work to get her spare key to her cus she had locked her keys in her car (again), to tell me how independent she is
now that is some bullshit
I have told her a dozen times, put the spare key in your purse!
she always grabs her purse before she gets out of the car but not her keyes see
but she's too INDEPENDENT to listen to me, so instead she calls on her bf to rescue her
very self reliant you see
I guess in the female mind if you are the one that makes the phonecall to get the help, you did it yourself?
You use one moronic princess of a girl (she is not a woman) to say that all women are high maintenance, dependent and need to be rescued. :wtf1: What she needs to do is get AAA. They provide free lockout service when you lock your keys in your car.

yah you girls tend to be overly critical of your bodily parts;
but not necessarily competitive. Unless you happen to be blessed with a giant rack. At least from what I've noticed
I can agree with that.
 

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This is one of the most retarded things I have read on here in quite some time.

Lex, I agree with you, see below for another really retarded post In fact, it may get the retardo post of the month award:

Well, most women are devious. It's part of human nature.

I don't think women avoid being assertive because they don't want to be labelled a "bitch". Assertiveness just isn't in their nature.

Same with men being more assertive than devious.

Rob <3
 

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I feel bad because I feel like I started all this negative talk about women. I really like my own sex and I feel comfortable with women. I just shared with you my observations and my experiences......And hopefully my experiences are not the same as everyone else. I am from Texas.... the bible belt and all single females have aspirations of being Texas Cowboy Cheerleaders. The others usually just want to find a rich man to marry and live happily ever after. My bad experiences with females came when I moved into the dorms of Texas Women's University and lived on campus for a couple of years. Maybe it was the age group of the ladies.....maybe it is just ladies that are driven and going to college. And the biggest factor is probably that there were no men that lived on campus......or at that time there wasn't. I had a car and most ladies didn't. I also had a brother that went to North Texas University that was in the same city. So, I had access to men. And I could bring them to the campus.

What I noticed is how women will clique. I have never been into cliques.....I know that there is someone that always gets left out and it makes them feel bad about theirself......so I have always been inclusive instead of exclusive. So while I really haven't ever had too many problems with anyone.....I did notice how females treat each other. I was like a fly on the wall. ..... I did have a few bad experiences like with people that claimed to be my best friend trying to put the moves on my boyfriends.....it never really bothered me that much. I have always felt like if things were meant to be then things were meant to be and they would work out. If someone could steal my boyfriend that easy he wasn't really "mine" to begin with. I only wanted someone that wanted to just be with me.

Anyways, I just noticed that there are women that are aggressive and they know what they want......and they will go for what they want no matter who that person is or if he is "attached". All I know is that what goes around comes around some time or another. If you go around hurting people that are supposed to be close friends......you will end up with not having anyone that will trust you.

Just seems like men don't get all caught up in the emotional drama with their friendships. Some women have expectations from their close female friendships......They have a sense of loyalty to each other. Other women don't.......and I think that is where the cat fights come into play.
 

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I feel bad because I feel like I started all this negative talk about women.

Don't feel bad. This phenomena existed before you started talking about it. I have found that a lot of the women on this site actually stick together quite well and have a definite sense of solidarity, especially behind the scenes.

The few that try to be the queen bee and vie for all the male attention seem to be the ones who bring the negative energy, so to speak. The vast majority of men who come here are gay or bi, so the need to compete might be heightened by the smaller numbers of supposed straight men. I am an equal opportunity flirt, so I have never understood it.

Just seems like men don't get all caught up in the emotional drama with their friendships. ...

Oh, they do (both straight and gay) they just don't talk about it as much. I knew many guys in high school, college and beyond who jockeyed for the attention of other "cool" guys.