I'm in a situation right now where a girl I've been seeing isn't very sexually experienced. She is used to a guy smaller than me. In fact, the difference is apparently great enough that she is actually afraid of having sex with me because she thinks it will hurt her too badly. So what I'm wondering is if there is a way to ease her fears. I'd especially like to hear from the ladies on this as to what you think would help. I don't think it will hurt her that much if I warm her up properly and use lots of lube so it's not how we would do it but how can I get her to. We have hashed over it a fair amount and this really is her main issue. Any help would be greatly appreciated.