Convincing my gf for a big dick mmf

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  1. Dylkat

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    Aside from the obvious pros i've put froward anyone else got any way i can build my gfs appetite for a big dick mmf
     
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    Uhhhh show her some really hot videos...have her read anything by Lora Leigh...or maybe Maya Banks....

    MMF, is hot in romance right now. So, just go to Ellora's Cave, click on menage, and buy her some hot reads. She'll be very, very ready!

    Good luck.

    and, uh, you've thought of the cons, right?

    bj
     
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    Assure her that you would pick the nicest gentle man. Include her in the choice. Maybe meet the guy a few times before and get some background info. on him
     
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    leave her to make up her own mind without feeling like you're pressuring her.
     
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    Well, if you've only got 4 3/4", like me, she'd probably be more receptive. Be careful though...there's a great chance she'll really like the experience (as mine has).
     
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    If you have any intention of keeping this woman in your life, I seriously don't think you should do it. I also fantasize about my husband with other women in full intercourse, but I have learned through reading around here, and talking to some friends of mine that were once swingers, that it is most likely going to result in break up and self-esteem issues. If she hasn't brought it up herself, I think it will do a lot of damage to try to "convince" her. Most (I must say not all) women like to have a man they trust, and a man they feel wants her all to himself. Offering your woman to other men tends to make women feel somehow cheap and unloved. Maybe you have found a rare woman that doesn't have such tendencies, but if you really want to keep the one you have got, do what I do: keep it in the realm of fantasy. Good luck :)
     
  7. dolfette

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    a guy i dated once kept trying to convince me that group sex was where it's at.

    i dumped him.

    gotta respect that no means no.
     
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    You do realize by doing this there is a good chance your girlfriend will leave you, especially if she finds out she has better chemistry with the other guy right?

    If you want a threesome you are better off doing it when not in a relationship. If you really love this girl, then don't do it, unless you like the idea of losing her.
     
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    Thanks for the feedback guys, trust me i know my gf, i'm not forcing anything i was just putting it forward to her and merely asking how to convince her wasn't forcing anything just wanted tips on what would be the best way to present and woo her to the idea.
    and if it actually happens i guarantee i wont lose her, you're just gonna have to trust me on that one guys, no arrogance, no up myselfedness i just know where we're at.
     
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    I highly doubt that after years in a relationship a normal individual would have more chemistry from a one night stand.

    The great sex will come from the scenario exciting her and the fact that her partner is involved.
     
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    I'll be in Melb'ne in March. Shall I pencil you in?
     
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    Why does the possibility of chemistry with another man guarantee his wife will leave him? I have sex and chemistry with people other than my husband but he has set the bar so high and has my heart and we share a child together and all these other things a new man can't be to me. So what if there is chemistry? So what if she likes his dick more because it's bigger (or smaller in my case)? None of those things means a damn thing when it comes to how committed she is to THEIR primary relationship.

    ugh!!!!!!!!!!
     
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    some people in this thread are obviously excruciatingly shallow.
     
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    I agree wholeheartedly Dolf. ::walks away angry muttering something::
     
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    Let her make up her own mind. If she wants to, she will do it. I'm sure she is smart and knows the pros and cons.
     
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    ive had a mfmf few years back-in a non comittal relationship- one of the women ws a real trip-she liked the mmf(threesome)-and liked the guy with the smaller cockto cum first-said it was a turn on for her.
     
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    Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!!!!!!!
     
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    I'm in exactly the same position man.

    Me and a hung buddy double teamed my girlfriend while we were at uni and all of us loved it, but my girlfriend only really trusted that one friend. He lives abroad now, so a repeat session isn't going to happen. She's keen on another mmf, but I can't convince her to go the one last step.

    Been trying to convince her for a while, it was literally the best sex I've ever had and we handled it so well on the relationship side of things :(
     
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    I have tried a few times to convince my wife and she said no. I think you guys have to respect that. She enjoys watching MMF porn with me but thats it. So I think mention it (and not every 5 secs - once or twice) that she knows it is a fantasy and you are open to it. The rest is up to her. Allow her time. Also people need maturity to handle things like that. Finally age does not nec equals maturity.
     
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    This is an issue every woman must deal with. lol
     
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