I don't post as often as I could, so I'll try to make this thread seem reasonable and productive, heh. Recently, I was joined by a certain girl in a group discussion with friends. I have met her from my lectures a few times, but did not know her very well. Anyways, the conversation was regarding relationships and the people that others were with at that time. Now, being single for as long as I could remember, I was already feeling a little uneasy. The fact I suffered from mild anxiety just made it feel more and more like they were metaphorically taking turns punching me in the stomach. The conversation went from kidney shots and stomach hits to full on hit below the belt when the previously-mentioned girl added in. She added that since she had hooked up with this boyfriend of hers, she has had difficulties being in a relationship or even thinking of being with other guys. While I thought this was a matter of affection, she said it was more-so a physical characteristic of his that made it difficult for her. Eventually, we learned she was in a relationship with fellow who, according to her, measured a little over 11 inches from base to tip. Some guys were put off by the fact that she mentioned his penis at all, but the numbers were salt in the wound for me. On top of being in a relationship with a nice girl like her, this guy was almost a ruler's worth of manmeat. Attempting to be polite and make it less obvious, I waited until the conversation came to a close to take my leave with my pride a bit dwarfed by what I had just heard. Ultimately, I am looking for ways I can see past penis size as a factor of attractiveness. I know girls will often tell me that it's how you use it more than size, but being a virgin has made this hard to swallow. What has helped some of you to get over the menace that is penis envy?