During the most difficult breakup of my life, I did all of these:
1. Threw myself into my work
2. Fooled myself into thinking I was ready to have another serious relationship right away, and ended up hurting some people.
3. Slept with many strangers.
None of these cured the problem...only time did that, and now it seems like a very small moment of my life, rather than 'forever'
But it is a key part. I agree it shouldn't be the only thing but my mistake was choosing love OVER sex.
I thought it was right to stay with the man I loved, with no sex than to leave him for that reason. A long time down the line and the relationship is purely platonic and one you would have with any other friend.
Sex isn't everything but it's right up there near the top of the list
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