Coping without sex

txquis

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During the most difficult breakup of my life, I did all of these:

1. Threw myself into my work
2. Fooled myself into thinking I was ready to have another serious relationship right away, and ended up hurting some people.
3. Slept with many strangers.

None of these cured the problem...only time did that, and now it seems like a very small moment of my life, rather than 'forever'
 

got_lost

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Sex isn't everything. It's good, but not everything. If all you want is sex, that's easy to find.


But it is a key part. I agree it shouldn't be the only thing but my mistake was choosing love OVER sex.

I thought it was right to stay with the man I loved, with no sex than to leave him for that reason. A long time down the line and the relationship is purely platonic and one you would have with any other friend.

Sex isn't everything but it's right up there near the top of the list
 

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Coping without sex is easy, that's what hands are for. Coping without love, or companionship that's the hard part, and it gets harder every day...
 

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A good vibrator and dildo and masturbating at least once a day. thats how im coping :wink:
You make it sound like a recipe!:eek: Stir frequently and bake in a hot oven. Serve with a side salad! hehe!:biggrin1: