Having been in management for some time, I only have this to say:
1) The laws in NYS and NYC have gotten very strong in the last few years
about unwanted sexual assault in the work place.
NEVER mix this kind of pleasure with WORK....ESPECIALLY if you like your
job and want to keep it.
2) Interoffice dating and romances, "overt sexual attention or unwanted
flirting", is normally a NO NO, and one should think twice before participating
in any of it.
NEVER mix this kind of pleasure with WORK....ESPECIALLY if you like your
job and want to keep it.
3) Do not assume the other person will be receptive or "understand" or feel
"honored" by your attention, especially if it is of a sexual nature.
NEVER mix this kind of pleasure with WORK....ESPECIALLY if you like your
job and want to keep it.
Keep your sexual feeling to your self.....if need be, go wank in the men's room
and let it pass. If not, and you let your emotions get in the way....
It's just a wreck waiting to happen!!
WARNING:
If your do it, and you are rebuffed.....you may be reported and eventually fired.
That will go on your personnel record....probably as "fired for sexual harassment."
And, there is a good chance your will be arrested and will then have a record as
a sexual offender. That will follow you for the rest of your woking life, especially
now in the electronic age and freedom of information. You will very likely NEVER
be considered for another decent job, or a job at all.
THINK, man, THINK!!!!