Cougars...myth or reality?
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There is another side to this Age Gap topic.
For several years before getting married, I met older women, and with some became wonderfully intimate. However, they all seemed to be very private affairs, never mingling with the ladies' groups of friends, not invited to "those" parties, or events. Instead, always an exclusive one to one meetup. But when dating a younger woman, something much different, she'd introduce me to her friends, and "want to" meet mine. Your social circle actually widened when dating the younger woman, and she didn't have to be much younger.
For several years before getting married, I met older women, and with some became wonderfully intimate. However, they all seemed to be very private affairs, never mingling with the ladies' groups of friends, not invited to "those" parties, or events. Instead, always an exclusive one to one meetup. But when dating a younger woman, something much different, she'd introduce me to her friends, and "want to" meet mine. Your social circle actually widened when dating the younger woman, and she didn't have to be much younger.
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Did you see what I quoted? He calls the people MILFs. The "M" stands for mother. Mother. Childless people are not mothers.
I'm not sure that's true.
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It's not. Wheelhouses and women don't go together. Not even in jokes, really
M stands for mother, true enough, but the word milf conjures up an image of a woman between the ages of 30 and 49 for me.
I don't have kids, but by my definition I'm a total dilf, yo!
I always connoted "cougar" with shallow promiscuity. Similar to, "I'm a tits man." Not that there's anything wrong with shallow promiscuity. I'm super grateful it's a thing that exists.
Age shouldn't stand in the way of any relationship, or necessarily define it.
You like what you like. Pursue it. You don't have to apply a label.
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How is having a body part favorite promiscuous?
Many faithful people have favorite aspects.
Also, MILF in porn: age 20 plus. :/
Many faithful people have favorite aspects.
Also, MILF in porn: age 20 plus. :/
According to the chart, I would be a "Panther"...however I do date younger men based on physical attraction as well as maturity level.... I have however been in situations where men half my age have been interested but age DOES matter in some situations and I have had to gracefully bow out....
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Hello MatureMocha i'm curious about your answer.
I used to be sex friend with a cougar when i was around 20y and then around 30y. Is your physicl attraction above the maturity side ? I mean if you find a young men awesome would you go for him even if he has no maturity ?
One of my college buddies said that a neighborhood mom took his virginity, gave him his first fuck, and taught him about pleasuring women over the course of a few weeks one summer. Apparently she had done that with several other boys in the neighborhood. He claimed that his first time was probably better than what most of us would have with girls near our own age.
Years later, at a swing party, I met a 40-ish woman who had a definite attraction to virgin boys, and claimed to have collected at least a dozen cherries. I listened for well over an hour as she described her procedure and techniques for giving a boy his first time, and the extensive teaching that followed. (She even did a comical parody of how each of the three guys' faces at the table probably looked when we lost our virginity.) She wasn't telling this information to the guys who were there, but to another woman who thought she would soon initiate a virgin boy who lived nearby.
Years later, at a swing party, I met a 40-ish woman who had a definite attraction to virgin boys, and claimed to have collected at least a dozen cherries. I listened for well over an hour as she described her procedure and techniques for giving a boy his first time, and the extensive teaching that followed. (She even did a comical parody of how each of the three guys' faces at the table probably looked when we lost our virginity.) She wasn't telling this information to the guys who were there, but to another woman who thought she would soon initiate a virgin boy who lived nearby.
I'm done playing school ma'am.
I consider myself high functioning and I find it very hard to find men my own age
who are on the same level as I am.
A guy who's 10 to 15 years younger than me who is would be akin to finding a unicorn.
I have found one or two but our lives were crazy and the timing was off.
I just find there's a lack in almost every part of their lives and their half finished people.
They haven't grown enough, lived enough and got their shit figured yet.
There's no equality of minds.
I don't have the patience to hand hold someone through that transition.
I consider myself high functioning and I find it very hard to find men my own age
who are on the same level as I am.
A guy who's 10 to 15 years younger than me who is would be akin to finding a unicorn.
I have found one or two but our lives were crazy and the timing was off.
I just find there's a lack in almost every part of their lives and their half finished people.
They haven't grown enough, lived enough and got their shit figured yet.
There's no equality of minds.
I don't have the patience to hand hold someone through that transition.
Hello Omegatech,
Thank you for your question....In response, I have met some truly awesome young men...and I'd have to say it depends on the person and their "level of immaturity"... I wouldn't expect him to have the same level as a man my age....but enough for us both to enjoy each other after sex...
