could you forego anal sex for frottage?

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If you wish to start a thread with one of those scenarios, then you are free to do so. From my POV, it was a perfectly logical hypothetical. The question was "Given the choice, if you had to give up anal sex for frottage, would you..." Doesnt mean that this would necessarily happen.
 

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If you wish to start a thread with one of those scenarios, then you are free to do so. From my POV, it was a perfectly logical hypothetical. The question was "Given the choice, if you had to give up anal sex for frottage, would you..." Doesnt mean that this would necessarily happen.

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The question was "Given the choice, if you had to give up anal sex for frottage, would you..." Doesnt mean that this would necessarily happen.

Exactly my point. Why not have both if that's what you want. Why choose between them? One has nothing to do with the other.
 
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Thanks, BigDallasDick8x6, what a hoot. I hope we get to frot sometime!

A buddy told me that once he got his hemorrhoids fixed, being a bottom became not just tolerable, but so much more pleasurable. I LOVE frotting -- I recently, in a moment of self-pleasure, found great delight in frotting a toilet-paper roll. (I'm a bit larger than said roll, and hardly ever get to frot something of that diameter.) Anyway, I avoid anal sex at every opportunity... Perhaps if I got my own hemorrhoids fixed, I'd do differently.
 

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Thanks, BigDallasDick8x6, what a hoot. I hope we get to frot sometime!

A buddy told me that once he got his hemorrhoids fixed, being a bottom became not just tolerable, but so much more pleasurable. I LOVE frotting -- I recently, in a moment of self-pleasure, found great delight in frotting a toilet-paper roll. (I'm a bit larger than said roll, and hardly ever get to frot something of that diameter.) Anyway, I avoid anal sex at every opportunity... Perhaps if I got my own hemorrhoids fixed, I'd do differently.

Well if there are medical issues, then yeah you might have to find alternatives to anal. But for most guys, why not ADD new techniques to your repetoire, instead of giving up something everytime you learn something new??

If you get your 'roids fixed, maybe we can frot AND I can fuck you! :biggrin1:
 

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So, let's make it less hypothetical, if you don't mind?

What if you HAVE been given this choice by a partner?

I have been with several partners that would not consider being fucked, and it was just fine for me to just frot with them... :)
 

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Yes, but you're not giving up anal, you're just frotting instead because of the partner you have at the moment.

There's a whole huge political thing about anal vs. frot and I would really like to keep that outside of LSPG. Why can't we have both if we want (given willing partners).
 

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I am straight, but not one of those straight guys who suck cock and get fucked in the ass. Not that there's anything wrong with that- and I mean that seriously.

I had a girlfriend once who was convinced that most gay males do not have anal sex but are just really into oral.

FWIW, I am straight/married and do have "outercourse" with my wife.
 

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The first time a dude asked me to lie on my back and spread my legs so he could stick his penis up my ass I thought it was degrading, but as soon as his cock hit my prostate I didn't feel degraded anymore!

Prison rape is degrading but IMO two guys who are into each other sharing the pleasure of anal sex is not degrading.

I have been with dudes where we just did frottage because we didn't have a condom.
 
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