Could you Obey your man?

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  1. B_mylipswet

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    This is for the ladies! Could you really "obey" your man? I mean sexually in the bedroom. Let me hear what your views are on total surrender. Does it intice you or do your own needs come first?
     
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    No I don't take orders well.
     
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    That statement had a lot more truth to it when your sig said you don't play well with others :tongue:



    In a truly perfect sexual relationship, wouldn't your needs compliment your partner's so that neither of you are really enjoying yourselves more than the other? Unless it's a sub/dom relationship, there really aren't orders given or taken, right?
     
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    Haha, yes well it's all truth, I don't play well with others.

    I agree, unless it's a BDSM relationship, why are there orders given?
     
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    I'm just trying to imagine someone "giving orders" in bed and it's making me giggle. "Samantha! Lay down!" "Bob! Roll over!"
     
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    "Suck my dick bitch!" hahaha roll over, good boy!
     
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    And for the trainee Necrophiliacs "Play dead!" ? :biggrin:

    Hmmm, orders in the bedroom? I don't think we do too much of that. I mean there's the heat of the moment stuff, like if he's eating my pussy and I need him to fuck me I do just say 'Fuck me now!' because "Sorry dear, that's lovely, top marks for oral, but I'm about to explode in a simply spiffing orgasm that could be 10 times better if you would be so kind as to penetrate me with gusto and finesse at your earliest convenience, thanks ever so!" doesn't quite cut it. :rolleyes:

    And he may well say 'Suck my cock' or 'Turn over' at an opportune moment - but, much as my 'fuck me now', it isn't so much an order as it is a request without the 'please'.
     
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    <---- What she said. :cool:
     
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    I sometimes wish I could. I would be a terrible sub though, too much desire to be in control of the situation...
     
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    i like playing around with the power dynamic. completely outside of any bdsm relationship. the unplanned out of the blue slide from the two party grope/tickle into a hand vice gripped on the back of your neck and growled out orders is just instant near to orgasmic turn on.

    same works for me grabbing him the second he gets through the door. nothing is sweeter than my boy tackle pinned to the wall, trying to not to cum because i told him not to. usually followed up a list of orders. to the bedroom. strip your ass bare. hands behind your head and don't even think of moving until i say you can.

    so umm yeah. i am willing to give orders. i am willing to follow orders. my partners in crime have the same mindset. so all is right in my pervy little world.

    ML
     
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    What should I use as a reward for a well-behaving man? Clicker training?

    MB I absolutely lost it at your necro joke. But you do make an excellent point about giving orders! There's just no time to say it politely. You might have to leave out the "please" and "thank you" and therefore it does sound like an order.
     
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    OMG! Clicker training... hahahaaa rofl
     
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    I might have troubles saying "good boy" but I could probably use the little clicker even in the heat of the moment.
     
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    I would probably end up clicking it to his thrusts or some dumb shit like that...

    click..... click.. click click click click click.... click ..... click
     
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    I think you might be onto something - sex for people who don't want the whole house hearing them.
     
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    And when they are really good give them tiny pieces of hotdog to let them know they are doing a really good job.
     
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    QFT!!!
     
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    I was going to comment but you ladies seem to be having fun.

    Continue.
     
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    hey..if ur in love with ur partner...its all about serving each other...and if he needs you to obey a sexual task...hell, do it...cuz u do get ur turn...
     
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    I could, with one person. He knows who he is.
     
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