I was wondering if it is a complete dealbreaker for people if their partner wouldn't perform oral on you. Let's say they are a really good match for you in every other way, but they thought performing oral was degrading. Would you want a relationship with this person or would that lead you to not pursue a relationship with them. Would you marry them or enter a long-term relationship? If so, would you get oral on the side? What if your partner wasn't cool with cheating? I'm curious what people's thoughts are...Anyone in this boat?