Could you stay with a partner who wouldn't perform oral on you?

[deleted817718]

My partner doesnt want to give oral - and Ive learnt to respect that choice. Its not the end of the world - there are thousands of other methods about giving and receiving pleasure.

That's exactly me and my wife's situation. It is all about respect.

 

[MatureMocha]

I once "sexed" this gorgeous young man who was great in every way EXCEPT HE WOULD NOT LICK THE KITTY!! He had stamina, was polite, neat, clean, hosted, hairy with eyes that could make you melt......

The first time we met, he explained to me that he did not eat pussy because he once had a BAD EXPERIENCE in which he went down on a woman who wasn't exactly "FRESH", as he put it and he had a violent visceral reaction and THREW UP .... Since then he had been shy about going back there again... So, we had a great sex date and I sucked him up and down until his eyes rolled back into his head.....but after that, I decided to wait to see if he had gotten over his fear....

Three years later, we meet again......He says he always remembered how great the oral sex was and wanted so badly to meet again.....so I asked him had he gotten over his FEAR OF LICKING and he said NOT YET!!

For me, if we were in a relationship, I would need a PASS to get my pussy licked elsewhere..... as i would long for the nice strong orgasm that oral sexy provided......and would eventually resent the one way street.....

 

[marriedasian]

The first time we met, he explained to me that he did not eat pussy because he once had a BAD EXPERIENCE in which he went down on a woman who wasn't exactly "FRESH", as he put it and he had a violent visceral reaction and THREW UP .... Since then he had been shy about going back there again...

i know exactly what that guy was talking about however everyone is different. to block all pussy cause you ran into a bad one is the most shallow move any person can make. i love to eat and lick pussy but hygiene is super-important to me as well as her own self-awareness of that hygiene. every women has her own natural scent and not all natural scents are gonna appeal to everyone but to block all pussy over one pussy? really?

 

[693987]

sorry guys, it's a deal-breaker for me and always have. i've always considered oral sex a form of self-awareness and sexual growth in a person. the only respectable exception i will make is if someone doesn't want to give and receive oral, in which case would be a deal breaker but then i can totally respect that. i've met too many women who are willing to get eaten out but won't go near a cock, go figure? i'm sure they have their reasons but i don't need to be a part of that.

i love to give and receive so i would expect the same. it's just how i roll. different strokes for different folks. there's too many fish out in the sea for me to settle for one that doesn't suck dick. i think the sexual relationship in any type of relationship is too important to make compromises.

Funny thing, I had to persuade my partner to let me suck his dick. I don't like receiving oral, but I'll give to him. I haven't asked for oral and/or make a point of declining receiving oral for years at this point. Unless giving was a kink/thing for someone. It's not like I hate it, it just doesn't do much for me. I've never had any problem with giving oral to others, though. Unless their hygiene was bad, but that is a whole separate issue.

 

[hammer75]

I’m definitely if the mindset that I much rather give than receive. I’m fairly self conscious about the size, or lack thereof, of my penis so when my wife has shown interest, rarely whether it’s because she doesn’t like doing it or I have persuaded her not to, I tend to shy away. If she ever pushed me away when I was going to town on her I might be suspicious though.

 

[Hairylegs]

Sex is weird, beyond weird! I find cunnilingus revolting. I can't stand the smell, I can't stand the feel, I can't stand the slime. Sorry ladies, I've tried to please my partners, but it's really hard to do while you are retching, and holding back barfing. But give me a guy with a hairy ass hole, and I'm there, voraciously. I can't explain it. There really is no difference in the feeling of a hairy pussy or a guy's hairy hole. I just wish I understood which neurons in my brain have hard wired me like this.

 

[ronin001]

. My wife is all of those things and more which is why I could care less about her giving me oral.

Good man

 

[ronin001]

I should be so lucky to find a woman like that.

They are plenty of them out there, I am looking for one for myself

 

[Gj816]

They are plenty of them out there, I am looking for one for myself

Me too buddy, me too.

 

[918177]

I'd be walking.

I like oral...A LOT.

I like giving oral A LOT.

So if a partner won't man up and dine at the Y when I pour so much skill and attention into
orally pleasuring him then hit the fucking road Jack.

The woods are filled with guys who are not only fantastic at PIV sex but will rip a door off it's hinges
to get his mouth on me.

 

[Gj816]

I'd be walking.

I like oral...A LOT.

I like giving oral A LOT.

So if a partner won't man up and dine at the Y when I pour so much skill and attention into
orally pleasuring him then hit the fucking road Jack.

The woods are filled with guys who are not only fantastic at PIV sex but will rip a door off it's hinges
to get his mouth on me.

That's what I'm talking about. Hell yeah!

 

[marriedasian]

Funny thing, I had to persuade my partner to let me suck his dick. I don't like receiving oral, but I'll give to him. I haven't asked for oral and/or make a point of declining receiving oral for years at this point. Unless giving was a kink/thing for someone. It's not like I hate it, it just doesn't do much for me. I've never had any problem with giving oral to others, though. Unless their hygiene was bad, but that is a whole separate issue.

thank you for sharing. there are many men out there looking for a unicorn like you. there is always someone out there for everyone. just gotta be patient and go find her/him.

 

[ohiorod]

Yes, I could definitely be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t give head. As long as the partner was an active participant in our sex life, it would be okay. I value the relationship and person in addition to a partner in sex. Some people don’t swallow, some don’t bottom, others don’t rim, so if someone didn’t give head, but fulfilled me sexually in other ways and I was in sync with that person, sounds a recipe for happiness to me.

 

[deleted817718]

Yes, I could definitely be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t give head. As long as the partner was an active participant in our sex life, it would be okay. I value the relationship and person in addition to a partner in sex. Some people don’t swallow, some don’t bottom, others don’t rim, so if someone didn’t give head, but fulfilled me sexually in other ways and I was in sync with that person, sounds a recipe for happiness to me.

That is pretty much my marriage! 7 years and her mouth hasn't gotten close to my penis. Still very happily married though

 

[notthatguy]

Zero chance i am staying with a girl who would not give me access to her 3 openings.

 

[havner]

I don't think I would get past a few months of dating if she would not give oral. I will do anything she wants so it should go both ways. Before my wife and I got married I nicely made clear I needed to be blown at least once a week, regardless. We have stuck with that agreement and after 5 years that is a lot of blowjobs!

 

[849142]

A couple’s sexual compatibility should be determined early in the relationship. At the very least, there should be a frank and open discussion concerning sexual attitudes and expectations so as to minimize unpleasant surprises and disappointments.

 

[blkcocktail]

I’m not a fan of getting head, so prefer a partner who wasn’t into giving. It just doesn’t do anything for me. In the past, ha I literally count the seconds till it’s over.

 

[exib]

I once "sexed" this gorgeous young man who was great in every way EXCEPT HE WOULD NOT LICK THE KITTY!! He had stamina, was polite, neat, clean, hosted, hairy with eyes that could make you melt......

The first time we met, he explained to me that he did not eat pussy because he once had a BAD EXPERIENCE in which he went down on a woman who wasn't exactly "FRESH", as he put it and he had a violent visceral reaction and THREW UP .... Since then he had been shy about going back there again... So, we had a great sex date and I sucked him up and down until his eyes rolled back into his head.....but after that, I decided to wait to see if he had gotten over his fear....

Three years later, we meet again......He says he always remembered how great the oral sex was and wanted so badly to meet again.....so I asked him had he gotten over his FEAR OF LICKING and he said NOT YET!!

For me, if we were in a relationship, I would need a PASS to get my pussy licked elsewhere..... as i would long for the nice strong orgasm that oral sexy provided......and would eventually resent the one way street.....

Wow. I lick my wife’s pussy basically anytime. I actually turns me on when it’s a bit smelly in the morning.

 

[ripsrips]

You accept me, my cock in your mouth and your tongue licking my ass, I'm giving oral back or else your gone!