I've had one partner who wouldn't give, and one who wouldn't receive oral sex ( but who gave curl-your-toes-OMFG head ). I was patient and accepting of their wishes but realized that I really missed either giving or receiving oral gratification. I can't really say whether it would be a deal-breaker for an otherwise good relationship as both of them ended for other, non-sex issues, but it might be a strain.
When I read and hear so many guys complaining that their wives never, rarely, or half-heartedly go down on them, it reinforces just how fortunate I am to have found a wife who genuinely loves oral sex.
When I read and hear so many guys complaining that their wives never, rarely, or half-heartedly go down on them, it reinforces just how fortunate I am to have found a wife who genuinely loves oral sex.