Could you stay with a partner who wouldn't perform oral on you?

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I've had one partner who wouldn't give, and one who wouldn't receive oral sex ( but who gave curl-your-toes-OMFG head ). I was patient and accepting of their wishes but realized that I really missed either giving or receiving oral gratification. I can't really say whether it would be a deal-breaker for an otherwise good relationship as both of them ended for other, non-sex issues, but it might be a strain.

When I read and hear so many guys complaining that their wives never, rarely, or half-heartedly go down on them, it reinforces just how fortunate I am to have found a wife who genuinely loves oral sex.
 
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No. If someone is not willing to do the basic sexual stuff like oral, anal, fingering, rimming then I would not want to date this person
 
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I have one lover who doesn't suck, with the exception of one time. The reason I continue seeing him is because he meets a need some others can't. He is the ex-football player type with the build to back it up. He is absolutely beautiful, dresses hot and has the softest, smoothest, cleanest mouth, tongue and lips for kissing I've ever felt. Also, he literally eats up the attention I lavish on him and I really dig that. If all of these things weren't so hot with him it would be a deal breaker.