Couldnt get it up

Discussion in 'The Healthy Penis' started by 7x5.5, Sep 24, 2005.

  1. 7x5.5

    7x5.5 New Member

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    Weird experience. I went out last night basically looking for sex. I'd been jackin it before hand and was horny as. So I rung up this girl who, to put it nicely gets around a lot - and drinks, a lot. I don't find myself attracted to her at all, but I thought surely when I got into it I'd be fine and I finally get rid of this massive load.

    So anyway when I actually met up with her she was tanked as, and we started kissing. Straight away I felt bad since she was so drunk and I'd only had a few beers, but I kept on regardless. Anyway we progressed...and I just didn't feel anything. I'd feel her body, and I mean it did not do a thing for me, my cock wasn't even flinching. I ended up getting out of there because I just wasn't enjoying myself like I thought I would. guess I can put it down to

    #1 She is not much of a looker, very skinny girl with braces
    #2 I don't actually really like her, in an emotional way
    #3 I felt like I was taking advantage

    But I dunno for most guys that I know, 'a hole is a goal' so to speak...and I guess I felt weird because I wasn't going to perform - and I feel I should be able to with any girl.

    Anyone have any similar experiences?
     
  2. 7x5.5

    7x5.5 New Member

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    I always though I was fine haha, maybe not lol...

    Hey bro maybe you were even at the same party, I am from Canberra too!
     
  3. mordecai17

    mordecai17 New Member

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    Well my friend, its like that with me, my penis does not become erect merely from kissing a girl, at all usually. Even if it is with someone who I am very attracted too. It just doesn't react that easily. I think since you felt bad about the whole thing that probably didn't help matters. I guess i don't have any answers, I just know what its like to second guess yourself as a "man" so to speak when your genitals don't react as they should.
     
  4. jonb

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    That's a common situation. Guys have preferences, after all.
     
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