Counter-poll for the sexually adventurous

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  1. MisterMark

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    Just thought I'd present the other side of things! :p

    I was an active sex worker in my 20s, and I know plenty of people who have had hundreds of partners. I'm sure there are many of you here. :D
     
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    I honestly have no idea. Over 200? Not inconceivable, but I couldn't swear to it. It just never occurred to me to keep count. Plus, what constitutes sex to me might not coincide with someone else's definition. Oral sex and intercourse, certainly; but what about mutual masturbation? Frottage? Intra-crural? But even with these interpretations settled, I would still have no fucking clue.
     
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    I've settled on a definition that works for me: I may not be able to specify an exhaustive list of acts which constitute sex, but I know subjectively when I've crossed a boundary with someone. That boundary is situationally dependent -- culture plays a factor, as do professional and family relationships. (You give your mom a peck on the cheek, that's okay. You french your mom, and you've definitely crossed a boundary.)
     
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    Well, I must say I'm a little surprised at the results so far, thought more of us would be in the upper tiers, but at least I know there's a few of us out there. DMW, I don't even know what the last two things you mentioned mean, so if you would like to expond, I'd love to learn. Personally, I define sex as any activity engaged in for the purpose of achieving orgasm, so I'm probably in the 200+ range, although have no actual idea.....really never seemed important to count. Even as a Dom where I wasn't undressed or involved in "the act", it was still sexual in nature, so it counts to me. Now if I were to only count sex by MY orgasms, the number would be sadly lower......
     
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    I haven't really been counting, but I'd estimate somewhere around 40.

    -- Erik
     
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    Oh ... okay. Frottage is also called Rubbing off. It's basically rubbing your body, usually naked, against someone else's for sexual stmulation. No penetration or manual stimulation. Intra-crural sex is a sustitute for intercourse where a man puts his penis between his partner's closed thighs instead of actual penetration.

    Heath, if we count French kissing, my number would definitely be over 200 ... and most probably over 400. Am I more of a slut than I thought?
     
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    Nah, how many of them were your mom? ;)

    P.S. I think it's "intercrural", not intra-, since the action is between two thighs and not within a single thigh.
     
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    Like DMW, by what definition;

    - Oral sex
    - Intercourse
    - Mutual masturbation

    Counting all 3 together I must be in the +100.
    But I must say I'm surprised, who is the one with +1000 !?

    He/She must have a profession in the sex industry. ;)
     
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    That was me. It's incredible how quickly the numbers can add up. ;)
     
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    DMW, thanx for clearing that up- my numbers are still the same. Those are not activities I've engaged in, seems like a waste of time. You're doing pretty well for one so young!
     
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    (Slaps forehead :blink: ) You're right, of course. Ignore the blunders of this English teacher!
     
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    Like I said ... I'm Popular! :D
     
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    Well, that doesn't make you a bad person, does it? :lol:
     
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    Hey, I'm still trying to get over the fact that flammable and inflammable mean the same thing.
     
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    Our quirky English language is a travesty, jonb. I have a hard time coming to terms with having only one word for "love". The Greeks, of course, have five and can use the correct one for the meaning they want to convey. We have to love everything equally, all the way from God to a bottle of beer. --There's just no justice!

    :( Luke
     
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    As I point out whenever a net loon refers to sane users as pedophiles.
     
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    That was once upon a time. In modern Greek, the verb agapĆ³ is used as loosely as we use the word love. The words for the other types of love are rarely heard in the modern Greek. I think Dimitri, Dee and Radu can probably attest to this.
     
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    Zora,

    You have to get together with more talented men. ;) My first girlfriend was 'experienced' but very rarely had orgasms vaginally, and not always with oral sex either. Since she was my first, I listened, I learned, and happened to become her best lover ever at giving her clitoral orgasms. In the many hundreds of times were were together, there was probably only 2-3 where she didn't have a mind-blowing, body spasming, almost fainting orgasm. :D Although the 'relationship' part didn't work out, were were friends-with-very-good-benefits for 8 years.

    We haven't been together in quite a few years now, but she says I still rank #1 in her book.

    LapDog2001
    (my name is not a coincidence :p )
     
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    I think my answer for the poll will
    surprise....

    But, perhaps that is why i want to tell the (approximate) number:
    Sometimes we
    quiet nerdy boys are the ones who
    actually shag a lot.

    My number is in the 100
    range, and if i didnt keep a journal,
    i wouldn't know that.

    I will say that 3 of those people were
    long term relationships...
    the others...fast term learning experiences.
     
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    What an articulate way to put it, txquis and something a lot of can probably relate to.

    You say the quiet nerdy type shags out a lot.... I actually think I was the all-American that was shagging you guys I always had a thing for that type. :p
     
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