Cousins boyfriend on the downlow

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by amberleafbabe, Nov 22, 2007.

  1. amberleafbabe

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    Hello everone,sorry I do not post on here more.I promise I will try to more often.Anyway I got a question,and I hope this is the right place to have it.My cousin is marrying this guy soon a friend of ours had a party last month.After the party this friend bought to my attention that she and some other thought that my cousins man.Could actually be on the down low.I however did not want to believe this,until about 2 weeks ago when we had a get together at my house.I basically caught this dude checking me out,and what I did not realize is that other people saw this too.Later on this was bought to my attention,and I am kinding of wondering if this guy is just tripping on something or if he is really bi.I am wanting to ask but I dont want to ruin a good friendship,and cause a problem with my cousin.What do you think I should do.
     
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    In reality? Nothing. She may already be aware of his bisexuality, he may be perfectly happy to be with her exclusively while they're together, she may even be in on it. That's between the two of them. Unless you have irrefutable proof she won't believe you and you'll damage the relationship because he may well deny it and then they'll both be angry with you for trying to break them up.

    It's admirable to want to look out for your cousin but right now all you have is a suspicion and that's not enough for so serious an accusation.
     
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    I completely agree. Unless you know he is cheating on your cousin, you really have no business saying anything.
     
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    Once again it couldn't be said any better than how Jaason-els put it. He has a knack for that, huh?

    And Hazel? Play nice, kitty.:wink:
     
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