I mean this literally, with no sarcasm or disrespect.
Here it is:
I have sucked cock. Me. Meaning, I have sucked penis. Penis so big I could barely get it into my mouth.
You are behaving like a homosexual.
If you are not homosexual, and it's fine to be homosexual, you need to fuck that woman.
Um-kay?
Call her. Discuss whatever bullshit you need to discuss. Gain proximity to her body. Disrobe. Fuck.
You'll both feel better.