Special thanks to the Mods That Be for movimg this from Women's Issues to a more appropriate forum, and deleting the other iteration of the same thread from Ask A Woman. I know how hectic it is behind the scenes, and I appreciate your rapid response. Really. Thanks, y'all.
Why is the urge to suck and worship bbc so strong
Because you're low-key racist and don't even realize it? Because you're low-key bisexual and afraid to admit it, making the thrill even greater? Because you see men, and ESPECIALLY black men as taboo?
I really wish the fetishization of black peoples would come to its overdue conclusion. When people exotify me, it feels dirty. It is not a compliment. I feel commodified, reduced to a thing, or a collection of hoped-for experiences off a shopping list, a walking perceived stereotype, a tick off the bucket list. Gross. It also makes me hate the perpetrator.
When I hear or see black men, whole fuxking MEN, being referred to as BBC, and fetishized as such, it maoes me feel like someone just called my little brothers niggers. Bucks. Savages. Thugs. As you might imagine, this is frustrating, and upsetting.
Do better.
Also, once you learn some actual respect for yourself and black people, I hope you make a very beneficial friendship.