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There ya go...the green light that you wanted.
It really doesn't matter what advice we give you...you're going to do what you want and that is going after her...
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It really doesn't matter what advice we give you...you're going to do what you want and that is going after her...
He'll figure out soon enough that he's just purchased a round trip ticket on the titanic.There ya go...the green light that you wanted.
It really doesn't matter what advice we give you...you're going to do what you want and that is going after her...
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Yes you keep wondering "what if" and she'll keep letting you take her for dinner, pay for her and basically worship her while not giving you anything in return. Sounds like a sweet deal.
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I must agree. You are letting her dictate all the terms and she hasn't gotten out of her previous relationship cleanly yet. For Goddess sake, play a wee bit harder to get! Make sure you are not going to get turned into cube steak by a jealous ex.
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A few years from now, yman may be back here, posting Tom Leykis videos from youtube, and lamenting how all women are materialistic users and whores, how they don't want a nice guy like him, who gives and gives and gets little in return.
You are gonna get chewed up and spit back out, yman. That's "what if".
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Memphis beat me to it. I was reading this whole thread thinking "come one, dude...your next update better be about how you banged her out."
Once you do that just keep her number in your phone. She's going to do A LOT of experimenting when she finally gets out of that relationship. You'll get chewed up and spit back out if you show any emotion at all. Put all your energy into fuck buddy status before you go on another "date."
Once you do that just keep her number in your phone. She's going to do A LOT of experimenting when she finally gets out of that relationship. You'll get chewed up and spit back out if you show any emotion at all. Put all your energy into fuck buddy status before you go on another "date."
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ok, here is the current update, we are getting slowly closer, we now text each other all day long. We have not hung out as much as I would like, but we are going out tommorow. Our text are getting more sexual too(mostly on her part). Still she seems unable or unwilling to leave her boyfriend. My question to everyone here is, am I forcing the issue by us getting closer or am in fact enabling her to stay in her relationship by providing everything she is missing in her relationship?
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You're a sucker. Before this thread, the idea of you as a sucker was completely foreign.
And yes. You're enabling her, and if you ever manage to convince her to leave her man for you, it will be until some other chump gets her to leave you for him.
And yes. You're enabling her, and if you ever manage to convince her to leave her man for you, it will be until some other chump gets her to leave you for him.
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AE is right. You are letting her use you. Welcome to the doormat club. Hope you like her shoes.
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You seem to have a distinct allergy to the term 'slut' which causes you to overreact. The girl the OP is wasting his time cultivating is not otherwise promiscuous. If she were he might actually have some hope of actually getting into her pants, but I see no indications of her giving up boyfriend. She has no incentive to do so.
I lurve you mis AE. I was thinking the same. This guy is a push over. A chump. Bro, speaking to yman, you need to grow the hell up and get some confidence. Your wasting ALL your time on this broad unless you keep her around as some sort of fling. Because she is and never will be serious with you in the way you want. Move the fuck on.
As you may have guessed - NONE of us is surprised.
You are polishing a turd here.
Get dressed up in your best clothes, make a play for other women while she is watching, get her drunk, & try to fuck her.
That sums up all the positive advice here. Once you've done that, she'll either have boned you -5% possibility, told you to fuck off 20% possibilty, or told you that she doesn't understand why you acted like that - 75% probability (to keep you even more under the submissive thumb like a gibbering jerk).
Force the situation - get it over with already! Good Luck!
You are polishing a turd here.
Get dressed up in your best clothes, make a play for other women while she is watching, get her drunk, & try to fuck her.
That sums up all the positive advice here. Once you've done that, she'll either have boned you -5% possibility, told you to fuck off 20% possibilty, or told you that she doesn't understand why you acted like that - 75% probability (to keep you even more under the submissive thumb like a gibbering jerk).
Force the situation - get it over with already! Good Luck!
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I think all the good advice has been dished already. Count me among the many who say walk the fuck away. There are other women out there. If you do so, and if later she leaves her bf you can re-evaluate the situation. But this situation has warning flags planted in every orifice. You've been warned...
What I don't think anyone gets here is that for me, this is not some girl. We tell each other everything and we are allways honest with each other. I don't need her to get laid, I am not needy in that department. We have the best time when we go out. Every morning we text good morning and at night we text each other good night. Do you know how hard it is to find a girl who is very sexual, open-minded, adventurous, insightful, and sees why I'm not like other guys. I think her issue is that she is in denial about her relationship being bad. I think as she and I continue to grow closer she will have to make a decision.
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