Creating a powerful sex drive, my ideas and experiences

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About 6-7 years ago, I began to experience erectile dysfunction and it got really bad. I could not get it up, even with viagra. It was so depressing, no morning wood, no spontaneous erection, nothing. Almost suicidal. I thought age had caught up with me.

In desperation, after doing some research, I almost totally stopped viewing porn and totally stopped jerking off. It's been roughly a year and I have not touched my dick except to wash it and pee. I treat it like its radioactive. I have watched a tiny bit of porn but nothing like before. I eat right, use a statin for cholesterol, exercise daily, and do some body building.

Result: Saturday night I had a date with a 43 year old former high end centerfold. I bet some of you would know her from certain mag. We had sex 4 times, once at 11 pm, then at 1am, then at 3 (I woke her up) then at 7 am. She said ( who knows if it were bullshit) that she had never been fucked like that in her life. My erections are like steel, with no ED drugs. I get morning wood everyday, and 3-5 rock hard nocturnal erections so hard they wake me up sometimes. They feel way harder than my teenage erections, at least what I can remember of hem, lol.

Kicker is, I am 60. I am actually seeing 4 women, 38, 40, now 43 and 50. The 50 year old is and was a couture model.

There is something that builds confidence, knowing that if the chemistry is right, you are going to get rock hard no matter what. No doubt whatsoever. And i must believe that's its really gratifying for your partner to know that SHE is why you are so turned on.

I never have an orgasm except when I am with a woman, never. I now get wet dreams, at my age, but I never jerk or edge or ever fondle myself. Radioactive, toxic.

I have zero scientific proof that porn, and masturbation is bad but I do have my own experience. I won't even look at glamour mags or any suggestive pics of women like in People. I fast forward thru sex scenes in movies and try to avoid ogling women I am not planning to fuck. I think it short circuits the arousal cascade.

I will say this: the 1st 2-3 months were utter hell. Then my erections slowly came back, I saw some honest reward, and now I don't even think of porn or jerking at all.
 
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Some other observations: my balls seem a lot bigger. I can't prove this but they sure feel bigger, denser. I was never complimented in the size of my nuts before but I get them now. What is measurable is testosterone. In the depths of my ED, I had every darn test, LH FSH, TEST. my test was around 600-650, normal. It's now 950-1100.

I have no idea why but I can guess.
 

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Honestly, your theory might be correct.. I do take Arginmax from GNC (i buy it off ebay, it's cheaper) but I don't jerk off very much.. Maybe once every 10 days or every 2 weeks.. I get erections but I skip doing anything about it.. I'm seeing a young babe and I always get hard immediately and I can last a long time too.. She loves blowing my cock.. I think these guys (younger guys) jerk off way to much.. I still look at porn but not necessarily to get off.. I look at it as motivation to work out and stay in great shape..
 

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Honestly, your theory might be correct.. I do take Arginmax from GNC (i buy it off ebay, it's cheaper) but I don't jerk off very much.. Maybe once every 10 days or every 2 weeks.. I get erections but I skip doing anything about it.. I'm seeing a young babe and I always get hard immediately and I can last a long time too.. She loves blowing my cock.. I think these guys (younger guys) jerk off way to much.. I still look at porn but not necessarily to get off.. I look at it as motivation to work out and stay in great shape..

When I was plaqued w ED, I used to try and visualize scenes from videos to get hard. How fucking sick is that? A hot women at my bed and i cant get it up cuz of her but with some fake girl on a screen. Since i Haven't seen porn in a year or more, those memories are gone. My dick is back to being teen age sensitive. I had sex last night about 9 pm, a good hard hour session, then by 11 my dick was hard just laying next to her and we went at it again. And then again. I have gone from being suicidal, to having an insane amount of sex for a guy of any age.

And your comment may be more truthful than you imagine. Younger women are complaining about younger guys being unable to perform. It crushes the woman's esteem and they think they aren't hot enough. Then they hook up with a guy who gets rock hard from just kissing and can you guess at how they feel then? Sexy, hot, desirable.
 
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Be careful with this train of thought in terms of the misinformation out there on the internet. "NoFap" is some weird obsession with this phenomenon. You might have had a mental addiction to porn / masturbation and your body needed a long break to get everything set straight. The science associated with the subject is sketchy at best so far.
 

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Be careful with this train of thought in terms of the misinformation out there on the internet. "NoFap" is some weird obsession with this phenomenon. You might have had a mental addiction to porn / masturbation and your body needed a long break to get everything set straight. The science associated with the subject is sketchy at best so far.

I did preface everything as anecdotal. I did/do have an addiction. I can only relay my results. Just like any possibly addictive process,I might guess some simply arent affected. I can drink alcohol like a fish and rarely get drunk and I have no alcoholic tendencies at all.

Plus my personal example is extreme. When I first stopped, I was in hell. My dick vanished, shrunk down to the size of a grade schooler. I had zero sex drive, zero. I would find myself reaching for it at the mst weird times, watching sports on tv, reading a book, whenever. When it shrunk down to a nipple in size it was all I could do not to touch it just to be sure it was still there. It was utterly devoid of feeling. Frightening. Lasted a couple months like that. Bowels of hell.

Now it's 180 the other way. Just talking to a woman in the phone gets it hard. Even simple eye contact of a flirtatious nature gets it 75% hard. It just surges. Since I ain't jerking it for any reason, my nocturnal erections are endless and sometimes so hard they hurt. It actually interferes with sleep. Now of course if I had a choice, ED and good sleep or a dick that virtually works on demand and can fuck 3-5 times a day, that's a pretty easy choice. I am a little over 7 inches erect, and it's never under 5 inches flaccid. It always has some tonus. In the throes of ED it felt empty, lifeless.

Here is what I think. There is a specific arousal cascade. It's driven by neural impulses from your brain. You see a sexually attractive woman or man and those proper gateways fire off. porn and degenerative fapping re routes those impulses in a very bad way. They compete with the correct neural path and block healthy impulses. ED.
 

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About 6-7 years ago, I began to experience erectile dysfunction and it got really bad. I could not get it up, even with viagra. It was so depressing, no morning wood, no spontaneous erection, nothing. Almost suicidal. I thought age had caught up with me.

In desperation, after doing some research, I almost totally stopped viewing porn and totally stopped jerking off. It's been roughly a year and I have not touched my dick except to wash it and pee. I treat it like its radioactive. I have watched a tiny bit of porn but nothing like before. I eat right, use a statin for cholesterol, exercise daily, and do some body building.

Result: Saturday night I had a date with a 43 year old former high end centerfold. I bet some of you would know her from certain mag. We had sex 4 times, once at 11 pm, then at 1am, then at 3 (I woke her up) then at 7 am. She said ( who knows if it were bullshit) that she had never been fucked like that in her life. My erections are like steel, with no ED drugs. I get morning wood everyday, and 3-5 rock hard nocturnal erections so hard they wake me up sometimes. They feel way harder than my teenage erections, at least what I can remember of hem, lol.

Kicker is, I am 60. I am actually seeing 4 women, 38, 40, now 43 and 50. The 50 year old is and was a couture model.

There is something that builds confidence, knowing that if the chemistry is right, you are going to get rock hard no matter what. No doubt whatsoever. And i must believe that's its really gratifying for your partner to know that SHE is why you are so turned on.

I never have an orgasm except when I am with a woman, never. I now get wet dreams, at my age, but I never jerk or edge or ever fondle myself. Radioactive, toxic.

I have zero scientific proof that porn, and masturbation is bad but I do have my own experience. I won't even look at glamour mags or any suggestive pics of women like in People. I fast forward thru sex scenes in movies and try to avoid ogling women I am not planning to fuck. I think it short circuits the arousal cascade.

I will say this: the 1st 2-3 months were utter hell. Then my erections slowly came back, I saw some honest reward, and now I don't even think of porn or jerking at all.

without a doubt the wisest thing I have ever read on what is more or less a porn site. Actually I think I am going to follow your advice to the best of my ability. There is no question that porn is enjoyable but also unhealthy when viewed habitually. Just like cigarettes or alcohol.
 

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without a doubt the wisest thing I have ever read on what is more or less a porn site. Actually I think I am going to follow your advice to the best of my ability. There is no question that porn is enjoyable but also unhealthy when viewed habitually. Just like cigarettes or alcohol.

For me it was hellish to stop but now my sex drive is so insane and RELIABLE, I wouldn't even look back. Of course if you read between the lines, I clearly have an addictive personality, take shit to the extreme.

I will give an example. 6 years or so i, after 6 months I FINALLY got this former model to date me. Our date went great, she invited me back to her place and my dick vanished from the earth. She basically went away and I couldn't chase her, I was so lame. Pathetic. The bowels of hell. Went to doctors, gobbled viagra, even tried tri mix. All I really needed to do was stop porn and fapping. Fast forward to now, she gave me a second chance. Same scenario, great conversation,great chem. and. Basically fucked her brains out. I felt redeemed.

Keep me posted, please.
 
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The biggest sex organ in the body is the brain. I 'm glad you got your thinking straight and it's making your penis follow suite.

Nothing is wrong with porn except when you start thinking about it all of the time and that can really fuck up a relationship.

Good luck, Bud!
 
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I do the same thing; I only orgasm with women and generally I have sex 3 or 4 times a week. I cannot remember the last time I masturbated. I have my wife and I have two married women who have sex with me because their respective husbands can't perform (and because they like me, obviously). For me, not masturbating puts me more 'into the moment' with the woman I am with, and they sense that I'm 100% with them and not away, fantasising.

For any man who's in a relationship or multiple relationships where there is regular sex, I recommend not masturbating and seeing how it goes. You should end up enjoying you sex more, and your partners should end up enjoying it more as well.
 

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You can get hard, just don't jerk off..

Seriously, I think I might give this a go.. Just go cold turkey until I see my babe.. Or just jerk off once a month if I have a dry spell with the babes.. Now I only watch porn about once a week just to see what the women look like and to appreciate their hot bodies.. And a good hard cock is always nice to see on occasion as well.. So I don't feel like I'm addicted to that and like I said, I don't jerk off automatically afterwards.. It was once a week or 2 weeks.. So I may have to stretch this out a bit longer to see how things go.. Should be an interesting experiment..
 
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I'm skeptical, I fap constantly and have never had erection problems, even the third or fourth go round. Maybe I just haven't reached the age where erectile dysfunction becomes a serious issue.