About 6-7 years ago, I began to experience erectile dysfunction and it got really bad. I could not get it up, even with viagra. It was so depressing, no morning wood, no spontaneous erection, nothing. Almost suicidal. I thought age had caught up with me.
In desperation, after doing some research, I almost totally stopped viewing porn and totally stopped jerking off. It's been roughly a year and I have not touched my dick except to wash it and pee. I treat it like its radioactive. I have watched a tiny bit of porn but nothing like before. I eat right, use a statin for cholesterol, exercise daily, and do some body building.
Result: Saturday night I had a date with a 43 year old former high end centerfold. I bet some of you would know her from certain mag. We had sex 4 times, once at 11 pm, then at 1am, then at 3 (I woke her up) then at 7 am. She said ( who knows if it were bullshit) that she had never been fucked like that in her life. My erections are like steel, with no ED drugs. I get morning wood everyday, and 3-5 rock hard nocturnal erections so hard they wake me up sometimes. They feel way harder than my teenage erections, at least what I can remember of hem, lol.
Kicker is, I am 60. I am actually seeing 4 women, 38, 40, now 43 and 50. The 50 year old is and was a couture model.
There is something that builds confidence, knowing that if the chemistry is right, you are going to get rock hard no matter what. No doubt whatsoever. And i must believe that's its really gratifying for your partner to know that SHE is why you are so turned on.
I never have an orgasm except when I am with a woman, never. I now get wet dreams, at my age, but I never jerk or edge or ever fondle myself. Radioactive, toxic.
I have zero scientific proof that porn, and masturbation is bad but I do have my own experience. I won't even look at glamour mags or any suggestive pics of women like in People. I fast forward thru sex scenes in movies and try to avoid ogling women I am not planning to fuck. I think it short circuits the arousal cascade.
I will say this: the 1st 2-3 months were utter hell. Then my erections slowly came back, I saw some honest reward, and now I don't even think of porn or jerking at all.
In desperation, after doing some research, I almost totally stopped viewing porn and totally stopped jerking off. It's been roughly a year and I have not touched my dick except to wash it and pee. I treat it like its radioactive. I have watched a tiny bit of porn but nothing like before. I eat right, use a statin for cholesterol, exercise daily, and do some body building.
Result: Saturday night I had a date with a 43 year old former high end centerfold. I bet some of you would know her from certain mag. We had sex 4 times, once at 11 pm, then at 1am, then at 3 (I woke her up) then at 7 am. She said ( who knows if it were bullshit) that she had never been fucked like that in her life. My erections are like steel, with no ED drugs. I get morning wood everyday, and 3-5 rock hard nocturnal erections so hard they wake me up sometimes. They feel way harder than my teenage erections, at least what I can remember of hem, lol.
Kicker is, I am 60. I am actually seeing 4 women, 38, 40, now 43 and 50. The 50 year old is and was a couture model.
There is something that builds confidence, knowing that if the chemistry is right, you are going to get rock hard no matter what. No doubt whatsoever. And i must believe that's its really gratifying for your partner to know that SHE is why you are so turned on.
I never have an orgasm except when I am with a woman, never. I now get wet dreams, at my age, but I never jerk or edge or ever fondle myself. Radioactive, toxic.
I have zero scientific proof that porn, and masturbation is bad but I do have my own experience. I won't even look at glamour mags or any suggestive pics of women like in People. I fast forward thru sex scenes in movies and try to avoid ogling women I am not planning to fuck. I think it short circuits the arousal cascade.
I will say this: the 1st 2-3 months were utter hell. Then my erections slowly came back, I saw some honest reward, and now I don't even think of porn or jerking at all.
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