Creative ways to punish your misbehaving man?

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  1. minimag

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    In today's technology-driven world, is "withholding sex" as much of a punishment as it used to be?

    For techno-weenies like me, we can go without sex for weeks/months/years at a time, but take away our TV remote-controls, and we'll be begging for mercy within the hour. :D

    Do any of you use other creative ways to punish your misbehaving man? (Such as hiding all of his WiFi antennas)
     
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    withholding sex would be just as torturous to me as it would to him, i think.

    but no to answer your question, i don't punish. except in the kinky naughty way.
     
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    The idea of lovers "punishing" each other is very destructive and has no place in a healthy relationship. Punishment is something a superior dishes out to a subordinate for inappropriate behavior. It is not a tool for those engaged in a partnership.

    :cool:
     
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    I'm not talking about serious type punishments here.

    I'm just talking about light-hearted stuff like when the lady "asks" for the guy to take out the trash before the dog gets into it, but the "big game" is on TV. Or when he leaves the toilet seat up and she falls in. :)

    Just stupid little stuff like that.

    I grew up with 5 women in the house, so they had me pretty well trained for adulthood. :p
     
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    OK, but ask yourself this: "Is this going to actually encourage good behaviour, or is going to aggrivate and potentially want to cause the other person to retaliate, in a "light-hearted" way."

    See, either way, it doesnt solve the problem. Basically, "Tag, you are it!"

    Maybe try positive reinforcement. Like suck his dick when he does something you like and let him know that. "Ooooh, I like how you took out the trash without being told! 5 minute blow job! BTW you could add on more time if you keep impressing me!" :biggrin1:

    Men are not complicated. :wink:
     
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    I hear you on this. I once told my BF that I would withhold sex from him (of course i was just kidding) and he just laughed at me and said that there was no way I would make it. He knows me better than I thought!
    On a serious note, I do not believe in punishing anyone. :smile:
     
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    a short performance piece from the MickeyLee Players.

    *curtain opens*

    MickeyLee: that's it, you pissed me off *huffs and grumps*...... no sex for you.

    Bf: what? why? fine *goes back to watching Bladerunner*

    20 mins later....

    MickeyLee: i think we've both learned a valuable lesson. off with your pants!! :naughty:

    i don't like the idea of punishing people or lil acts of snarkery.

    something like the garbage not getting taken out really doesn't seem like a big deal to me. if i really care that much about it, i'd do it myself.
     
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    Why would you not take out the trash knowing the dog was going to get into it? Big game or not. I'd say i'd punish you by telling you that you'll remember better next time while you are cleaning up all the trash strewn about the house from the dog. And then i'd go run a bath.

    My husband doesnt leave the toilet seat up.

    This whole thread is a little odd to me.
     
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    Normally, it isn't a big deal, unless the dog DID decide to have a garbage snack and then vomited on and in someone's favorite pair of shoes. :p
     
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    Are you just a complete asshole all the time, or just in describing yourself in this thread?

    I seriously couldnt take 5 minutes with a person like you.
     
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    Just a poor attempt at a little humor. :(
     
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    Um, nice to meet you too?
     
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    The only way to effectively punish a person who is not a child or at the developmental level of a child is to threaten them with serious injury to their person or properties. You grew up with sisters, but if they pulled any of these silly stunts on you now hopefully you've developed enough so that classicial conditioning nonsens like that would not work.

    Fact is even taking away sex ( I guess you had sex with your sisters, huh? Kinky there fella... ) doesn't work most of the time anyway since most persons live quite fine without sex for months with or without porn / "the big game" / other nonsense.
     
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    eewwwww

    i have a friend who always puts food crusty dishes in the sink.... drives me crazy, cuz it always gunks up the drain and well, it's just a gross habit.

    anyway, i invited him over to the house for brunch, made these huge over stuffed omelets. being a skeevy stoner type lad he just dove in, snarfled it down at light speed.

    about half way through, i told him how much i hate people putting chunky dishes in the sink, and i how i hate cleaning out the drain, how you have to dig just insane amount of manky food out... blah, blah, blah, bitch.

    with a mouthful of food he half smiles and mumbles an apology.

    i just devil grin him and ask how he likes the omelet.

    now this guy knows me well enough that his brain instantly went to "Mickey put drain scrapings in my omelet"

    :rofl: his face went white, then green, then purple/red.

    he's still not sure what was in that omelet, but he's NEVER put a funky plate in the sink since then.

    so maybe i do like lil revenge and snark-backs.

    eta: i didn't put sink muck in his omelet. :redface:
     
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    There's no such thing as "light-hearted" punishments.
     
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    ladies....I can tell u my wife dropped kicked my ass to the floor in a drunken fit of rage like 3 weeks ago....yes i was dancin with a lady friend of hers...so what, a bit of bump and grind..no harm......after she knocked me down...she then kicked me a few times...to reinforce her wishes.....I DID NOT CARE FOR IT.....may i suggest do not use this tactic...it did not go over well....but yet..I learned not to dance w/her friends!!
     
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    Now THAT is the kind of thing I was referring to. If I'm an incestuous asshole for just asking about it, what does that make someone that actually does it? :) Just kidding, of course.

    As far as my childhood went, I didn't mean for people to think there was anything illegal going on. I was the youngest of 6, so if I got out of line, I got my butt kicked.
     
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    i'm southern... i'm not that southern :mad::rolleyes:
     
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    I find that appealing to the area of the brain that is responsible for reasoning skills is often enough to release a flood of guilt. For one, most people do not relish the idea of being put in the hot seat over their careless or thoughtless behavior. Esp if it is a partner or lover....

    If this doesn't work. It is southern tradition in many households for the partner/wife to dig out the iron skillet and start a swingin'. LOL

    It has been known to happen!
     
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