Really interesting thread. Enlightening and food for thought.
Got me thinking what are my criteria, preferences and limits as well..
Please don't judge me if something's not lining up with what you like.
Criteria:
- 27+ years old, less than 58.
- HiV-/STD free.
- Use of condoms.
- Dominant. Not arrogant.
- Smart with everything that includes.
- Pleasant, aka, we get along, I don't like pointless drama.
- Living alone or with house-mates, living with parents it's a big NO even I'm dying for them.
- As Bbucko mentioned, he/she must be open to a range of extreme playing, I don't mind vanilla, some times I even like it but it's not really my cup of taste.
- And again as Bbucko mentioned, he/she must be truthful, open and honest in all matters of communication. I'm a unique snowflake, if I don't trust them, I can't fuck them.
- If it's a male; a) body hair. I would absolutely no function if he doesn't have any body hair, either because of his age, gens, waxing or anything else b) shoulders! I'm addicted to them, I want them wide, either by building or nature, don't really care.
- If it's a female; it'll sound weird but I have a thing of how her vagina will look, can't really explain it. Of course that's something I can't know from the start but if she's not of my taste, sadly I'll lose any appetite I might have for her in sex.
Preferences:
- Non native. I really don't like men/women of my country for a variety of reasons.
- High sex drive.
- Male; hung, at least average. I had the honour to be with gifted men so..Bigger the better.
Nothing can replace this wonderful feeling of 'closing down' and being so tight after a rough fuck with a large big cock.
- Female; waxed/shaved, in general, hairless armpits.
- Taller than me. And bigged than me.
- Healthy body, I don't mind an average or slightly overweight body or even a build-like-a-trunk body but I do mind an unhealthy body.
- Employed and can afford his/her expenses.
- Enjoying art, either in the form of reading or watching a play or anything related.
- Likes cuddling after sex.
- Likes drugged sex once in a while (drugs in the means of pot, pills, dust -nothing too heavy like heroin- and alcohol).
Limits:
- No doormat. I like going out even if it's just for a walk.
- No vomit. I don't mind gagging and throwing up on your cock, hand or whatever else you want me to but don't expect me to do it in command.
- No dead people. I don't like corpses.
- No animals. We can fantasize, we can talk about bestiality but I don't think I'll be ever able to do it.
- No forcing, in the means that you're crossing the line, I'll do whatever you want me to do until you don't understand that NO really means NO.
In case something like this will happen, I'll do whatever you want me to do and then I'll get the fuck out of there.
- Never dare to ask me for a threesome, 4some et cetera with friends or people I know. I have no problem going into a club and leaving with another couple or person but I do have a problem if you tell me that you want to fuck my friends.
- I don't mind watersports or scat, in fact I like them, but there's absolutely no way that I'll do something that involves them in public.
- No children. Enough said. Not even as a fantasy.
- No relatives. No, I'm not going to fuck your brother/mother/sister/dad/uncle et cetera. Again not even as a fantasy.
- No leash in public. No humiliation in public.
- No cheaters. In case you cheat on me while we're in a relationship, I'll mindfuck you so much that you'll regret it.
- Absolutely non-sense TV talk. I don't own a TV, I never really watched it and if I do, is for specific series, programs. If you're watching more than 1-2 hours TV each day, I'll wave you goodbye.
- Not a game hater. I play MMORPGS, I play board games heck! I even RP sometimes, I want someone who likes to do the same or at least likes them.
I think that's all after almost 7 years of being sexually active. Kind of long list, sorry for this wall of text. :redface: