Don't know if this has happened to you but you start dating a girl (or whatever blows your hair back:wink when people you know from your social group come up to you and say 'why you going out with her?' 'thought you'd go for someone different!' 'she's not good enough for you!' and comments of this type. It was almost always women I knew that would come out with these statements. Were they just being bitchy or as I see it they wanted me to go out with them instead and were showing their jealousy (that's what I'd like to think:biggrin1 If these girls fancied me why didn't they act a bit more interested earlier, and if it was just bitchiness how come they thought it was ok to say such things to me about my girlfriend! I'd never say to anyone 'don't go out with someone', I would just be there to pick up the pieces if it went wrong. Just wondering if you have had similar experiences, or tell me if there is something else going on in these circumstances!