Guys, if a user submits a video you shouldn't put negative critiques (even if followed by a compliment) if the member didnt ask for suggestions or opinions about what should be changed. I saw the response in Monster76's thread that included things from the lighting, sound, his girlfriends vagina and handjob skills. He is the first member i've seen since my joining in Sept. other than the famous Quercusone who was making homemade videos and allowing us to see them here at LPSG. Masturbation videos are the most common submitted and those are getting more rare even. The rarest form is between a member and his significant other. It's a treat to get to see this. While its tempting to want to give suggestions on how to make our videos look like professional porn, please don't. We aren't wanting to make generic professional porn videos. We are trying to mimic what most of us do in the privacy of our bedroom because that has chemistry and eroticism. While many men could fuck the hell out of anything with fluorescent lights glaring at them, most of us women can't get into the groove on cam if everything about the environment is non-romantic. This means sometimes our camera angles arent that of a camera man, our noises can be muffled and most of all the lighting isnt flattering from the viewers prospective. The most important thing is that people are enjoying themselves on cam and showing the chemistry that a couple normally reveals in privacy. This is something we all know that regular porn is lacking severely, mostly because the environment in porn studios is far from erotic and it gets mundane. Frankly, the porn isnt all about the cumshot distance or how detailed the pubic hair is in view. Its about enjoying watching a couple endulge in one another and actually loving every minute of it. All i'm saying is to think carefully about how you comment on our videos because our feelings are out on our sleeve about our work. We are often mimicking what we like to see and do and that might not be what you like to see. Most of all- i think more women would be likely to have their rendezvous captured on cam if the men would try to stop making them perform like pornstars. If you want this board to have nothing but links to vids from other people, fine. But i thought some of the flare here was embracing and encouraging user submissions. I, for one, would like to see more of them and i know why i was discouraged to post them here and now i'm seeing that Monster76 is likely to make the same decision if this is what the mood is like over here.