How long have you been hiding this from your wife?
(Drop the BS, that’s part of the problem)
personally, CD and sissy attitudes make my skin crawl. It’s not the clothes, it’s the whole vibe that being female is demeaning.
I’m trying to imagine this scenario of a guy who discovered that he would like to be in the lovely lingerie he’s been buying for his wife of, oh, say, a decade. That realization, and the shame of admitting.
I’m trying to imagine the scenario of the wife hearing him, a mix of excitement, shame and pain in his voice.
And all I feel is pain.
I’m blessed that I’ve not walked that road. I tend to like guys who aren’t so masculine identified they’d have to hide something like that. I’m pretty sure the shirt my ex wore at our wedding was designed for women, but it’s a hippy-aimed design, so was unisex. My blouse was sold as a night shirt, soooo...
I’d not be comfortable with a lot of the side stuff that I read from CD/TV folks. And so often it reads like a slide to being a “sissy” to a man.
The aspects that hit hardest are the correlation between feminine or female identified objects being seen as humiliating to a man. As if being female was a horrible thing.
They tend to say girl and not woman, too.
There’s such loathing in the lexicon.