cruised by str8's

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  1. gjorg

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    I was at LOWE'S today (bastion of male sexuality) and two guys with their wives (separate occasions) gave me the once over. Then a married guy with wife and 2 kids gives me a heavy duty once over,twice.The later was at a TJ MAXX. My friend said it was because I looked gay maybe.I had on a lime green button down polo shirt ,knee length black shorts, cole haan sandals(european butch)and new eyewear that was kinda bono.What do you think?Oh yeah, caught the eye of two girlfriends also.
    When a chick says "does this make me look fat" Maybe I should have titled this Thread " doe's this make me look gay"?What was it,was I getting cruised or the gay factor?
     
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    If your hair is still platinum blond with la moustache au naturel, yeah -- you were getting the "that guy is gay" once over.

    Certainly not saying you have to change your looks. I'm a guy gay that definitely goes for guys who look the part; just trying to help explain. :)
     
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    Oh cum on man...you know the answer to that...:rolleyes:
     
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    gjorg, if your Avatar is really you (?), with those handsome good looks of yours, you are going to get stared at and cruised by countless men! There is the jealousy factor, the admiration factor, the style leader factor,the what the fuck with the hair/moustache factor,the delicate looking man factor and oh yes, the gay factor. I would want to look at you for most of the above reasons!:tongue::biggrin1::rolleyes::wink::smile:
     
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    Who said they were srt8s?

    The married guys could have been just as gay as you.
     
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    Enjoy the attention.
     
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    Thanks For many good things but to clarify,The avatar is me ,my hair is white not platinum(naturally) and I now shave the dark stache. It was natural too. Chest went grey , pubes still dark.
     
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    pssst: I think they were trying to tell you some prison rape stories
     
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    So how is Rikers. Are you chatting from the library?
     
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    I've been cruised by str8s at times too, sometimes its the gay factor, sometimes the str8 competition factor, and sometimes a real cruise whether they were aware of it or not.
     
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    My partner and I used to oun a Gay dance club in the 80's and we knew of many married men. Now jump to the 2000's and I find an abnormal amounts of married guys at the gym! Down lo dudes. ARE DOWN LO DUDES THE NEW PINK? Appologies to Carrie Bradshaw!
     
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    Thank you I think ,"the delicate looking male style factor?"The shirt is 3 yrs old , so are shorts , shoes about 5 yrs. only thing new is eyewear and that comes from a happy female optometrist who was happy with my preformance.
     
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    I've hooked up with many a married man. So it doesn't suprise me that you have been openly cruised. I think many bi guys are married and are just itching for some man sex. Lowes and Home Depot are great places to be especially early in the morning when all the contractors are there. I have gotten some looks there myself. Hehe.
     
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    It was because you looked flaming, I'm thinking. Straight men don't go for that shit. A lot of gay men don't either, I should think. 'Come to think of it, everybody is offended by lime green.

    To wit: :biggrin1:
     
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    well, you kind of look gay in your picture, so... gaydar works anyway, no matter what you're wearing.
     
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    Your scrotum shot is Awesome
     
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    Next you are going to wiggle out of being handsome...come on admit it man.....you're cute..... oops handsome!:smile:
     
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    Thank you very much! the older i get the less pickey i get also so it might be an age thing. I have good days and bad, clean up well tho. While I am here anybody got that extra 20 pounds from quitting smoking?
     
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    I've had more than my share of allegedly "straight" guys. In my experience, they're usually the first ones with their legs up in the air with their feet heading fast toward just behind the ears. So, I kind of think that these guys weren't all that "straight." A little experimentation at times is one thing. Actively cruising me and going home with me and getting laid is quite another.
     
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    Trust me I never look flaming
    What part of PA are you from? Perry county?
     
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