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In my (very limited, I may add) experience, the only kind of cruising I'd get involved in is at a gym steam room or possible open showers. There's no way you could get in trouble with the law there. The worst that could happen is you get your gym membership cancelled. And even then, that barely ever happens nowadays.
Again... squirt is a great tool for that. It can tell you what are the most popular times for cruisers to show up at steam rooms in gyms.
 

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To me, cruising for sex is like being reliant on fixed line phones in a world where everyone has an cell phone. I guess the risk has a certain appeal but I don't see the point beyond that.

In my opinion it is just a different approach: at the end of the day, you make the phone call :D
During cruising at least you have the opportunity to see from the very beginning how the guy looks like, his appearance and behaviour...with cell phone everyone could send a fake photo, or lying about something...
The risk of getting STDs is the same, involving sex in any case: personally I cruised, but I did nothing more than a quick wank or cock-licking, being extremely suspicious...
 
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Sometimes it can be totally incidental. I was pumping gas at a truckstop and I went in to get something to drink and collect my receipt. There was a tall guy that was in front of me and he waited for me with the door open. Okay strange because I was far enough behind him that he could have let the door close but he decided to hold it open and I didn't want to feel like a jerk and make him wait so I sped up to catch the door. When I caught the door he looked at me and gave me a smile. I noticed him lingering around me pretending to be on his phone so I went decided to see if my suspicions were right and went to the restroom and sure enough he comes in after me. He told me he was watching me from my truck and asked me if I wanted to join him in his big rig. He said it was clean and roomy and he had his air on if I was interested in going back with him. I wasn't able to go back with him because I was actually in a rush to be somewhere but he was a nice looking guy and I never would have thought he were down to mess around with guys if I had noticed him before. I often think of how hot it would have been to follow him back to his truck and get into some things with him.
 

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In the past year I had a trip to Cuba and Spain, I believe that crusing in those two places is easier and more common than it would be in the USA overall. Could be somethig to do with Machismo culture.

I don't consider myself high on the totem pole of men, because beauty is subjective, but I've never found myself in more situations where I was inadvertenly making and holding eye contact with people as I had done in Cuba or Spain. I have a bit of a struggle with anxiety that I am working through so I've didn't act out those connection, but I think what alot of guys have said here is true.

It could even be broken into a fomula, if you like to think in steps:
1. Make initial contact
2. Give a slight smile or wink
3. If returned, make your move to place where they can follow or follow them.
3a. If not returned - move on​
 

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Lots of great info on here. When I first started coming out, I cruised the university bathrooms a lot. After I figured out the routine, I had lots of great success.

1) Be patient. It often takes time before somebody looking comes along, but if you are patient, you usually can find something good. Cruising the busy toilets/areas is a waste of time to me. It is too busy for anything to happen. People always coming and going. The bathrooms/areas I had the best experience were the lesser used spots.

2) Always be aware of your surroundings. In the bathrooms, always be aware of the sound the door opening makes. Most of the action I saw took place in the stalls. I always paid attention to when the bathroom door opened and how many men came in and/or left. I also would check out the stalls to figure out which ones (if any) had glory holes. Also look for really small holes in the walls. You can watch guys and figure out if they are looking or not. One of the university bathrooms was in a very old building and the bathroom was laid out weird. The stalls didn't have doors on them and there were 4 urinals located on 3 different walls in a small area. I tried out all the stalls to figure out the best cruising spot. There was one stall that I could watch 3 of the urinals and the main sink area. That was the cruisiest location by far. I got lots of action from that stall. There was a local park that used to have lots of action. I knew all the trails in the park and where they started and ended. Some of the trails got close to each other in spots and you could spy on people out in the woods. Other spots were super secluded. If you do play, be aware of people coming from either direction.

3) Don't be stupid! I always waited to do anything until I was sure the other guy was interested. I might grab my crotch, give it a rub or two. But I never took my dick out until the other guy had taken his out. I know the police were cracking down on one bathroom at the university union. They put a video camera pointed at the door of the bathroom. I know a few guys got busted for messing around in that bathroom. I think the university cracked down on that bathroom because it was near the arcade games, bowling alley and food vendors. That area was popular with high school students and families with small kids. The other bathrooms in the same building, they never cracked down on activities in those bathrooms. So be smart about where you play. Check Squirt.org and look for locations. Read the comments and see how safe it is there.

4) When I cruised from the bathroom stalls, I would look for other guys that were in the other stalls longer than usual. Listen to hear what they are doing. If they are using the bathroom, most likely they aren't cruising. If they are just sitting there, chances are they are looking. Some bathrooms have lots of shiny surfaces. Look for their reflection to see if they are jacking off. Or see if they are busy looking under the stalls too. If you think somebody is looking, move your foot close to their stall. Tap your foot. See if they tap back. If nothing, they might not be looking. If they do tap, move your foot closer and tap again. See if you get a response. I used to take a pen into the bathroom me. If I thought they were interested, I would write a note on the toilet paper and slip it under the stall or through the glory hole. Most of the time, I would ask if they were interested. If they weren't interested, 99% of the time, they would either not take the note or they would flush it and leave. If the bathroom was busy, I would suggest going to another restroom that was usually not busy.
 

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odd question but has anyone tried cruising with airdrop? obviously iphones would be needed but what if you were in a stall looking to cruise, you could anonymously airdrop a picture (e.g. body pic, nudes) to the nearest phones?
 

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I love cruising restrooms and feeding young smooth first time curious cocksuckers . Especially bi guys with girlfriends . Im in Orange County California . If anyone loves the idea of sucking a big daddy dick in a locking restroom , let me know . Send me a message
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I always cruise at my uni, there are small peep holes in the cubical to peer into it. If they're looking, or standing up wanking, it's on. Understall action is the best.

Tapping your foot in the cubical, if they respond with a tap or show their foot, put your legs under the partition and get jerked off, blown, sometimes even they'll sit on your dick and ride you.

Standing at a cubical, look around, if someone comes next to you and exchange's eye contact, go for it.

Never cruised at a park before
Me too. My university has several good cruising bathrooms. Also, the sauna in the gym looks directly at the shower area. Makes for an interesting combo.
 
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Lots of great info on here. When I first started coming out, I cruised the university bathrooms a lot. After I figured out the routine, I had lots of great success.

1) Be patient. It often takes time before somebody looking comes along, but if you are patient, you usually can find something good. Cruising the busy toilets/areas is a waste of time to me. It is too busy for anything to happen. People always coming and going. The bathrooms/areas I had the best experience were the lesser used spots.

2) Always be aware of your surroundings. In the bathrooms, always be aware of the sound the door opening makes. Most of the action I saw took place in the stalls. I always paid attention to when the bathroom door opened and how many men came in and/or left. I also would check out the stalls to figure out which ones (if any) had glory holes. Also look for really small holes in the walls. You can watch guys and figure out if they are looking or not. One of the university bathrooms was in a very old building and the bathroom was laid out weird. The stalls didn't have doors on them and there were 4 urinals located on 3 different walls in a small area. I tried out all the stalls to figure out the best cruising spot. There was one stall that I could watch 3 of the urinals and the main sink area. That was the cruisiest location by far. I got lots of action from that stall. There was a local park that used to have lots of action. I knew all the trails in the park and where they started and ended. Some of the trails got close to each other in spots and you could spy on people out in the woods. Other spots were super secluded. If you do play, be aware of people coming from either direction.

3) Don't be stupid! I always waited to do anything until I was sure the other guy was interested. I might grab my crotch, give it a rub or two. But I never took my dick out until the other guy had taken his out. I know the police were cracking down on one bathroom at the university union. They put a video camera pointed at the door of the bathroom. I know a few guys got busted for messing around in that bathroom. I think the university cracked down on that bathroom because it was near the arcade games, bowling alley and food vendors. That area was popular with high school students and families with small kids. The other bathrooms in the same building, they never cracked down on activities in those bathrooms. So be smart about where you play. Check Squirt.org and look for locations. Read the comments and see how safe it is there.

4) When I cruised from the bathroom stalls, I would look for other guys that were in the other stalls longer than usual. Listen to hear what they are doing. If they are using the bathroom, most likely they aren't cruising. If they are just sitting there, chances are they are looking. Some bathrooms have lots of shiny surfaces. Look for their reflection to see if they are jacking off. Or see if they are busy looking under the stalls too. If you think somebody is looking, move your foot close to their stall. Tap your foot. See if they tap back. If nothing, they might not be looking. If they do tap, move your foot closer and tap again. See if you get a response. I used to take a pen into the bathroom me. If I thought they were interested, I would write a note on the toilet paper and slip it under the stall or through the glory hole. Most of the time, I would ask if they were interested. If they weren't interested, 99% of the time, they would either not take the note or they would flush it and leave. If the bathroom was busy, I would suggest going to another restroom that was usually not busy.
EXCELLENT Advice! I learned all that from years of washroom cruising many moons ago. Everything you say is right on.
 
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odd question but has anyone tried cruising with airdrop? obviously iphones would be needed but what if you were in a stall looking to cruise, you could anonymously airdrop a picture (e.g. body pic, nudes) to the nearest phones?
Honestly, I don't think that would be a great idea. You are more likely to offend someone than initiate a sexual encounter.

If you were to actively cruise, I would have Grindr and Squirt open on your phone. Check for proximity, and toss in a hello.
 
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So I am a runner and once posted my run route on grindr and posted if you see me running and are hot ill blow you in your car. It was at mid night. I didn't want to get fucked because lol i was still planning on running.

Had two random guys pull up and the bottom guy drove around while I blew his man in the back set
 

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A lot of it can depend on what you're wearing. skintight button-fly 501s with one button open. A tight muscle shirt or tank shirt. a thong strap showing when you bend over. A tight denim-covered ass. A bulging cock in front. All that gets attention. And if you casually reach down to adjust your package . . . . need I say more?
 
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So I am a runner and once posted my run route on grindr and posted if you see me running and are hot ill blow you in your car. It was at mid night. I didn't want to get fucked because lol i was still planning on running.

Had two random guys pull up and the bottom guy drove around while I blew his man in the back set
That’s fecknig amazing