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Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by badboybryce, Nov 21, 2009.
Does anyone know of any "safe" cruising locations in the NYC & northern NJ areas?
God why would you need to?
I'm single and horny as hell right now.
Ah, too bad that the Penn Stn. men's rooms were renovated out of existence.
Those places used to be incredible - 10-20 urinals on each side of the room, and all of 'em taken, and 90% of 'em by cruisers.
The Internet has really put the kibosh on real life cruising which is a shame. It just doesn't have the sexually charged menergy that cruising in person does/did. We need to bring it back.
I assume you've already checked www.cruisingforsex.com and www.squirt.org ?
So that is who keeps following me into the urinals at penn station?!?!? Damn near every time I go in there a smallish mexican person gets into the urinal next to me and blatantly peers over the divider at my dick. This has happened on numerous occasions and even at port authority. What is the fucking deal with that? He peers over at it as if I am not even there. Am I supposed to give him a signal or something? I thought "yo Im about to knock you out" was enough but maybe I should learn it in spanish.
Hey, cruising is not "safe" in any location. You always take a risk.
Well I guess that depends on your definition of cruising. Cruising is not the same as public sex although some people consider them synonymous. What do you consider cruising and what are the risks that are "always" there? I'm not talking about going up to a Marine or construction working and saying "Hey I want to suck your dick."
I agree, the internet has killed cruising. (Surveillance cameras, too). Cruising used to take place in the bar, the shopping center, men's rooms everywhere, the bookstore, the baths....
Since moving back to Houston (post-internet), which used to be a cruising mecca, I have made the following observations:
Cruising Memorial Park (take a run, meet the most "interesting" people) will land you in jail. Cruising the Galleria bathrooms (which used to be notorious like the Penn Station bathroom, and I'll NEVER forget my shock when I went in Penn Station men's room for the first time!) will land you in jail (to the point where I won't even go in there to pee, for fear I'll "look" like I'm cruising). The bars are full of my age -52- and older, because the young guys are all using the internet. Except, of course, for the "big dance bars". 1, I'm too old for the big dance bars, and 2, they're full of straight people. You go up to a nice looking guy to cruise him, he's with his girlfriend and offended that you cruised---and HE's the one in the gay bar....
The bookstores, as have been addressed in other threads, are just plain nasty now Ok, they always WERE nasty, but now the clientele seems to be druggies and bad guys---or the 90 year olds who don't give a shit. Plus, the cops are much more active; they used to leave us alone and just bust when an election was coming (so they could show that they were defending the straights against the evil faggots), then go right back to "business as usual." Now, you never know when they might show up and arrest everybody.
The baths---man, did I *ever* used to have fun at the Club Baths (I spent 3 glorious days New Years' 1982 at the Club Dallas; came out with a $300 credit card bill and walking funny with a dick so sore I could barely touch it. Then the AIDS epidemic put an end to that sort of fun. I've been back (as the dreaded "troll"), but hell's bells, I'm not the only one! For every 1 decent looking guy, there are 50 old men. The baths look like bathtime at the Senior Center. Don't know where the young guys are going, but the baths aren't it. At least around here.
Alas, poor cruising, I knew it well....
(If I were a straight woman, this is the part of my life where I'd sit at home with my 50 cats, eating a half gallon of ice cream, wearing my fuzzy bathrobe and slippers, watching "Lifetime, Television for Womyn". As it is, I sit at home with my 3 dogs and surf porn on the internet).
cruising can be fun. but my little friend told me of the whispering in her ear. He should thank her!
I remember those men's rooms back then too. I was only in my 20's and it was kinda gross and kinda frightening but also kinda hot for a kid who was horny. Frankly, I prefer those rooms as they are now, even if they are sanitized, so to speak. What I do miss are the all-male theatres in the Times Square area!
MH 07! Bravo, dude. GREAT post on the state of things. I was just at the Club Houston in Oct. I thought it was awesome, but certainly you don't find young guys there. That's ok with me, but one does want a certain variety.
Those Penn Station men's room were not only filled with cruisers, but in the times I was there, they were filled with black dudes stroking the most enormous big cocks.
Similarly, the Grand Central Station cavernous men's room was also a major site for watching black men stroke those monster cocks.
It used to be possible to take the subway from cruising spot to cruising spot, with the time between trips the same as the refractory period.
I remember going to the Christopher Street piers in 1980 when I was 17 and was quite popular. The decrepit structure was home to an open air freak show and bath house.
Apparently, we get to choose between marriage or cruising, and the choice has been made for us that marriage is the way to go. At some point, people are going to realize that monogamy amongst men, especially younger men, is simply not possible. After a generation of failed marriages crashes on the rocks of perpetual horniness and the need to secure a steady supply of new, different and interesting hard dicks, hopefully gay cruising will rise from the ashes of the marriage deception.
Theres always the Bijou in the EV
Wow, this is the bigggest load of shit I've ever heard. No one made anyone choose anything and good job on perpetuating the stereo-type that all gay men are animals that can't control themselves. I guess I should go tell my husband of 15 years that we're doomed and we should just divide up our shit now and call it quits.
I certainly would never insult any of my friends who DON'T want serious relationships or marraige and vice versa. One size doesn't fit all, and there is life outside the clubs, bars and circuit parties.
You sound like a closeted Republican, and that's sad....and funny.
would someone please define "cruising"...?
I was just sparking a little dialogue.
BUMP. I'd like it to know if any places still exist. I've heard wonders about forest park and FIT
Forest park is great.