So there is this guy at work. Great guy, but I don't know if he is gay. Never spent enough time with this guy to find out. In addition I don't think a workplace is the place to ask about someone's sexuality. It is a business. However this guy, will give and take when it comes to flirting, but only to a certain point. Like for instance I dropped off some seasoned almonds for his department. Later in the day I had to call for some reason and of course I flirted as usual, and said "thank you for your salted nuts. they were delecious" if he really knew what I would do to him, if I got the opportunity. However I had a workplace relationship, and it went horribly wrong. I don't even want to attempt to actually do something. Its just frustrating, because I feel like he know's Im gay, and that I want him, so he says things just to mess with me.