So I've developed a huge crush on a fellow worker - knock some sense into me... I'm in a relationship and relatively happy, been together four years. Last autumn, I started a new job and on my first day met a woman - let's call her Linda. As soon as I saw her, I think my jaw dropped because she was (to my eyes) stunningly beautiful - long auburn hair, 6'1 tall, slim with an amazing smile. Well, fair enough - often see people who I think are stunning but I think no more of it. But it was her first day as well and we had a company tour where we ended up sitting together and having lunch. She was not only beautiful but great company. She works in another location - about two miles from my office - but I bump into her once a week when I'm over there. It's also where my partner works and she's friends with her. Once or twice we've gone out for dinner as a couple - me and my partner, Linda and her boyfriend. Over the last year, I've just found that I have grown more and more attracted to her. Currently she's doing some study and I've been proof reading her work. To make matters worse, my wife jokes that she thinks Linda is chasing me and that Linda has a crush on me. I am finding it hard to get my mind off her. I feel like a schoolboy all over again.