So i think i might need some advice on the following. Lately i've been chatting with some guy I met online and at first i didn't pay much attention as it was just another online persona talking shit and about sex. Just like this place. But then when we would IM each other, instead of talking about sex, we end up talking about other things like films, music, family, relationships, personal situations etc.... Like more personal things that normally you wouldn't really talk about with random hookups because they're more...personal. And we seem to have a lot in common which scares me a bit. So i am developing a crush on this person but then we haven't met yet although he wants to this week and we haven't even chatted on the phone although he asked for my number and my personal e-mail. We have exchanged text messages and e-mails. We both seem to want the same in a serious relationship but i can't figure out if he's talking in general or indirectly saying something to me. I wrote once to him that via e-mail that I am finding a deeper connection to him and he wrote back and said that i made him feel good when i wrote that and that he also values my conversations with him. the thing that throws me off is that when i first text him, he didn't know who i was and i was like "why would u ask for my number and not add it to your cell phone list?" Am i the only one who would do that because I mean i'd like to know who is calling me. now he's the one who suggested to want to meet me this week. I'm open to that why not. But there are things he does that really throw me off. We've discussed past relatinoships how we've both been burned and perhaps like me, he's taking careful steps??? So what do u guys think??