Ok, I just did a search on here with "crush" in the title. Very interesting, and it does seem that most of us have crushes from time to time in our lives. One guy said it happened to him when he was dateless & unfulfilled. Is that true for you? I don't think I'm normal when it comes to this. I've crushed on people - maybe one or two a year - since I was in college. Prior to that, I had a crush on a boy from my school for almost three years...hardly spoke to him. But I'm talking about hard crushes here. Not just 'oh, they're cool, I'd like to date' crush, but rather a 'I can picture you and I doing it on the sofa every night, getting married & adopting kids' kind of crush. And this is usually when I don't really KNOW that much about the person (i.e., it's not a friend, or anyone I hang out with.) I get rather depressed about these situations because obviously nothing positive really comes of them, I'm just left pining over someone who doesn't generally know nor care that I exist. And now I'm married...and for years the crushes have continued. If they're meaningless, then I'll just stop paying much attention to them. But I'm starting to think there's just something wrong with me. Thoughts?