Cry during sex...

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    I was just curious if anyone here has ever experienced this. My fiance cried for the first time during sex. I was completely taken aback by this because he's the most masculine guy I've ever known lol We talked about it afterwords but I was just wondering if anyone else here has and what caused it?...:smile:
     
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    possibly the most spectacular he's ever had?
     
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    I would think it would be akin to how some people have experienced crying during a very intense and powerful massage. Yeah, it was probably a great release and all sorts of emotions came to the surface unexpectedly. Never experienced it but it makes sense how it could happen.
     
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    i know an ex-friend who did this..
    and i know women who've done this with me back in my viking-style fuck days when i didn't have any dick control.(youth is truly wasted on the young,because my fuck style now......remarkable!)
     
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    I often cry if it's really good. Because it's wonderful, not because it's kinky. Altho sometimes it is both.
     
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    Never cried, but 50% of the time, I'll start laughing.
    Especially just before cumming.

    My bf finds it adorably cute.
     
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    You laughed?! lol
     
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    GF cried for overwhelming sensation.
    I can't picture a guy crying no matter how hard I try...
     
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    he probably got in touch with his feelings and realized how much he really loves you - and he expressed that emotion.
     
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    my first ever gf and i were grinding hard and making out for the first time and she started crying all of a sudden. i was like "wtf!", didnt say that, but i knew then and there she had some issues, which turned out to be the case. she was afraid of my big dick
     
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    LOL
     
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    naturist Male says it perfectly. This has nothing to do with your b/f's masculinity or whatever. Males are human beings too and sometimes we have powerful emotions that are linked to intimacy. I know sometimes when I'm having intercourse with my g/f and we're making out at the same time, I feel so amazingly happy and fulfilled, tears well up in my eyes. She cries sometimes too. It's just an emotional expression of something that is hard to get in touch with verbally. Personally I think you're super lucky to have a guy who is that vulnerable to you, obviously loves you very much and isn't afraid to express it. Guys usually are trained to hold in those more intense expressions of happiness. I would say that you've got a keeper there. :smile:
     
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    About what I was gonna say. Never heard of it or done it myself tho.
     
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    my ex-gf nearly cried ---- i think it was the only way for her to deal with a waves of orgasms. But i didn't know about until after she told me. She was so quiet about it. I would have stopped and cuddled her like something was wrong

    girls -- still a mystery....:confused:
     
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    I cried twice. Once was one of the two times I came from getting head...it really takes a long time to get me off by sucking my dick, and she did it and it felt so good I shed a tear. The other time I was tripping on acid and it was just so beautiful that by the time we were done I cried at how in love I was.
     
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    I find this totally remarkable. The sheer thought of being able to cry like that through relief or emotion is astounding to me. If you have any tips, aside from not being emotionally retarded, that'd be good :D

    On the flip side, if someone laughed during sex, I think I'd feel quite... I don't know. I don't get insulted or have self-confidence issues. It'd be a pretty fucked up situation, no? lol
     
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    You seem like fun :)
     
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    There is a porn scene with Bo Dean and Kelly Taylor on Jake Cruise.com. Kelly Taylor cries and moans with pleasure from having intense hard sex with Bo Dean.

    All I know is: I wanna be next, if Bo Dean is that good. :mischievous:
     
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    I don't want to sound like a bullshitting full-of-himself showoff, but I thought that was pretty common with women after an orgasm.

    It's not?
     
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    One of the first girls I had sex with told me sex was funny and people should laugh sometimes. From my little experience at the moment, I didn't see why you should laugh (idk I was really good from the first time) and never laughed with her, because I fucked her so good there was really nothing to laugh about. I figured maybe if the sex sucked, or like a dick slipped out it could cause some laughter...it's better than disappointment right? Well I fucked a girl a while after that and laughed/snickered because I was teasing her a lot, going really slow but hard, and it bugged her out. She was like what? why are you laughing? I couldn't explain myself and that was the first not-so-great sex I had.

    oh, im loads of fun.
     
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