Crying after orgasm

[EllieP]

Here's where I have a problem with casual sex. You can stick your dick in someone, but you're too afraid to talk to talk to them? One of the most intimate things you can do together but you cannot communicate any other way.

I know I'm quaint and old-fashioned, but to me that works out a lot better.

 

[sudcalifornio]

Seems easy enough to just mention that you have never seen it before and ask if it's a good sign, or if there is something she needs to talk about. Best wishes.

She started to cry, looked at her all over surprised, tried to fleed she yelled me to come back to bed, she hugged me

Here's where I have a problem with casual sex. You can stick your dick in someone, but you're too afraid to talk to talk to them? One of the most intimate things you can do together but you cannot communicate any other way.

I know I'm quaint and old-fashioned, but to me that works out a lot better.

Casual sex?

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

She started to cry, looked at her all over surprised, tried to fleed she yelled me to come back to bed, she hugged me

You need to talk to her, and if you 2 can't control the chaos between you, speaking for myself, I'd end it.

 

[sudcalifornio]

You need to talk to her, and if you 2 can't control the chaos between you, speaking for myself, I'd end it.

@AlteredEgo already set the main issues, i guess the weird way she expresses her orgasm is nothing i can do anything about, i already set my boundaries, as you been reading my post

 

[EllieP]

She started to cry, looked at her all over surprised, tried to fleed she yelled me to come back to bed, she hugged me



Casual sex?

Casual sex, in that the relationship is not deep enough to where you can share emotions. An orgasm is not an emotion although it can implicate them pretty deeply.

The fact that you would try to leave a crying woman or anyone in obvious emotional distress tells me more than I need to know. So why did you try to flee? What were you running from? If you thought you had upset her why wouldn't your first instinct be to stay and try to make it right?

 

[sudcalifornio]

Casual sex, in that the relationship is not deep enough to where you can share emotions. An orgasm is not an emotion although it can implicate them pretty deeply.

The fact that you would try to leave a crying woman or anyone in obvious emotional distress tells me more than I need to know. So why did you try to flee? What were you running from? If you thought you had upset her why wouldn't your first instinct be to stay and try to make it right?

I am sorry i don't see a lot of people crying, i am not used to, either a girl cry after sex

 

[EllieP]

I am sorry i don't see a lot of people crying, i am not used to, either a girl cry after sex

ALL THE MORE REASON TO ASK! Sheesh, I've never seen a guy cry after sex, but if he did I'd sure as hell ask, in as nice a way as I can, what was wrong?

 

[sudcalifornio]

I've never seen a guy cry after sex, but if he did I'd sure as hell ask, in as nice a way as I can, what was wrong?

lol a guy cying, crying after orgasm hahaha i cant stand up, so funny, if you find it please let me know on the "fictitious histories"area, i'll be 1st the one reading that

 

[nailz]

Some people are just hyper-emotional, and sex/orgasm can be a trigger.
A friend who sometimes joins us in the bedroom does it all the time. The first time it happened we were totally freaked out, we thought we'd done something wrong But she assured us it was normal for her to cry during/after having an orgasm

 

[EllieP]

lol a guy cying, crying after orgasm hahaha i cant stand up, so funny, if you find it please let me know on the "fictitious histories"area, i'll be 1st the one reading that

FYI, I'd prefer my partners to possess a full range of emotions. Macho doesn't do it for me at all.

 

[sudcalifornio]

Some people are just hyper-emotional, and sex/orgasm can be a trigger.
A friend who sometimes joins us in the bedroom does it all the time. The first time it happened we were totally freaked out, we thought we'd done something wrong But she assured us it was normal for her to cry during/after having an orgasm

who wouldn't freak? gf acted the same, i looked at her, got off the bed she yelled me to come back to bed, she hugged me until round 2.

 

[AlteredEgo]

lol a guy cying, crying after orgasm hahaha i cant stand up, so funny, if you find it please let me know on the "fictitious histories"area, i'll be 1st the one reading that

The man I married cried, vomited, hyperventilated, and otherwise had a full-on panic attack the first time I brought him to orgasm with my mouth.

FYI, I comforted him and made sure he was okay, then I helped him get ready for bed and snuggled with him.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I recently made a man come so damn close to tears.

Triggered some in me, but we made a joke about us, so out of practice, crying over good sex.

Gotta laugh in bed, too.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I recently made a man come so damn close to tears.

Triggered some in me, but we made a joke about us, so out of practice, crying over good sex.

Gotta laugh in bed, too.

Laughter is encouraged, as long as there is no pointing.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Hey, Lloyd, how did the sex change operation go?

(Check the subforum...ask a Woman)

 

[sudcalifornio]

Finally got the nerve to ask gf why she cries, she told me she "trust me to let herself out".
Don't like still about her crying, but i guess as i said before have to live with it

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Finally got the nerve to ask gf why she cries, she told me she "trust me to let herself out".
Don't like still about her crying, but i guess as i said before have to live with it

Trust is big!
I have people who have known me more than a decade or two who have never seen me cry.
I'll say that I cried, but I hold it back until I'm in a safe place.
Be honored she trusts you.

 

[sudcalifornio]

Trust is big!
I have people who have known me more than a decade or two who have never seen me cry.
I'll say that I cried, but I hold it back until I'm in a safe place.
Be honored she trusts you.

She doesn't "trust" me every time we do it, LOL

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I get what you are saying, but lol diminishes her actions.