Crying during/after sex?
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I think what happened to Snoozan is similar. Excessive and continued fighting causes emotional distancing. She specified that prior to the love making she had felt emotionally distant from her husband.
Sex is an emotional and physical experience. Crying though can be misinterpreted as a bad thing. It's kinda like crying when you're really happy.
I've never experienced it, but then again, i get this feeling I need more than just what the men in my life can give me...
I've never experienced it, but then again, i get this feeling I need more than just what the men in my life can give me...
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My husband makes me cry like that also when we fuck, it's like the sex is so good you loose all of your senses and emotions, he has fucked me so hard and good with his big dick, I have cried, passed out for about 15 to 20 seconds(scared him with that one), legs will not stop shaking for about 30 mintues or longer, screamed for a few minutes, and all of the above at the same time. So, that is great.
This happens to me fairly often when I use the shower massager to masturbate (which, in turn, isn't that often). Everything's so intense that it makes me cry. It starts a little bit before I reach orgasm though (and continues for a little while after). Like someone else said, it's a nice emotional release so it's actually a good thing.
I haven't ever had it happen with anyone else though (and don't really want it to).
I haven't ever had it happen with anyone else though (and don't really want it to).
I've had lovers who release tears of joy for a number of sex after orgasm. At first I thought it might be sadness, but that was the other association. I understood the term "tears of joy" much better after that. Better than a man or woman who cannot express themselves openly in any form.
Once, but she didn't know. We had been broken up for a few months, I was eating her out, and we were listening to a cd we listened to often, and often while having sex... (Enigma's "LSD") The song was "loneliness"... anyways... I totally teared up... she had no idea. That was the second to last time ever with her, after at least a thousand times.
...she never actually saw me cry about the breakup... I only did one other time (alone) for about a minute... just so you know how tough I am an shit.
...she never actually saw me cry about the breakup... I only did one other time (alone) for about a minute... just so you know how tough I am an shit.
I cry after sex. I cannot help it. It's not cos it was bad or hurt or anything but the emotions just well up inside and come out me eyes!!
It is off-putting for my dh though. Maybe why he hasn't bonked me in years!!
Anyone know how to stop the crying?
I am surprised and dismayed by these reports. That seems so fucking obtuse. I've never seen this happen, but if it did, I think I would just lick my partner's tears off her face as they emerged. I would take it to mean that she was overjoyed, overwhelmed, over-somethinged.
Ah, that's sad
Naw... we had 5.5 years of great sex and good friendship, but emotional attachment was actually very little the whole time. It was as they say, a physical relationship.
Sorry. That was misleading. There are other issues for him, and ones he won't speak about, nor seek help about regardless of what I say or do. He doesn't want to know. Just don't think the emotional side for me helped him.
sorry. will shut up now.
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