typically when one hears the word cuckolding, they think of eating creampies after someone else, forms of humiliation, teasing, and some guy sitting in a corner whacking off while his wife is banging a big cock. (a crude scenario... but I'd think this is the typical idea of what cuckolding is all about.)
In some cases this is true, but I'd dare say in many cases only one part or even none of these activities take place during a cucking relationship.
I partake of the hotwife/cucking games. (They are games to us and this is how we approach the entire sexual experience.)
Why? First of all b/c I know that my husband is greatly turned on by that fac t that he has a hot wife (and insatiable one) who can find men half her age to have sex with. I am rather attracted sexually to younger men and find that playing these games with them is more fun b/c of their attitudes and confidence. (yes older men have this too, but for me younger seems to work better.)
Secondly, b/c we wanted to experiment with our sexuality and bring new elements into the relationship. Expanding together by doing things both partners gain from can't be all bad. We both have the type of personalities that can separate emotions, there is no jealousy, no suspiciousness. We are totally open and honest and I tell my husband everything... from "I met a guy online that is interested, I'll check it out and see where it goes..." to "This guy is available on such and such date.... how do we want to work this?"
Thirdly, there are lots of hot guys out there that desire an "older woman" experience but are afraid of emotional attachments. This works perfectly for them. They get to experience an older woman who totally enjoys sex and can rock their world, and they are left with a great memory (or memories) for the future.
Is it accepted? Probably not in the "standard" sexual atmosphere... but everyone has their own kinks. This is not something I would have a discussion about with my friends or family ... it is strictly between my husband and I... (Like I said before... what happens behind closed doors... as long as it is consensual and lega... is no one else's business!)
Why wouldn't a woman want to do this? Many reasons:
1. Fear of a her husband's response: jealous husband (even though he enjoys the fantasy, the wife knows her husband has a tendency towards being jealous) or anger from husband, fear of feeling as if she betrayed him ... so many things could happen.
2. Inability to separate love and sex, afraid of emotional attachments to the "mister"
3. Simply no desire... she's happy where she is with what she's got and has no desire to try something else.
I am sure there are other reasons I will let other women continue to respond... (or rebuttal) ... LOL
these are simply my thoughts on the subject.
I am like the lady above ... more into the hotwife than cucking... but my husband enjoys the "idea" of what is happening. He does not ever watch... unless he is busy with the camera and focused on that. But he admits to being a bit cucked.