Cuckolding/hotwife do you agree with it?

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I would like to know what you think about cuckolding? Is it a turn on for women? Is it accepted? Why would women not want to sleep with other men if there husband has given them the green light?
 

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Do not see the attraction. Definitely not into it myself.
 

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I am active in both. I like the hotwife aspect of things a lot more than cuckolding. However being that most of my playtime on the side is by myself with a lover it has pushed hubby towards cuckolding. We don't do any hardcore things with that, but there are aspects we use. Its more of a combination of both.
 

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typically when one hears the word cuckolding, they think of eating creampies after someone else, forms of humiliation, teasing, and some guy sitting in a corner whacking off while his wife is banging a big cock. (a crude scenario... but I'd think this is the typical idea of what cuckolding is all about.)

In some cases this is true, but I'd dare say in many cases only one part or even none of these activities take place during a cucking relationship.

I partake of the hotwife/cucking games. (They are games to us and this is how we approach the entire sexual experience.)

Why? First of all b/c I know that my husband is greatly turned on by that fac t that he has a hot wife (and insatiable one) who can find men half her age to have sex with. I am rather attracted sexually to younger men and find that playing these games with them is more fun b/c of their attitudes and confidence. (yes older men have this too, but for me younger seems to work better.)

Secondly, b/c we wanted to experiment with our sexuality and bring new elements into the relationship. Expanding together by doing things both partners gain from can't be all bad. We both have the type of personalities that can separate emotions, there is no jealousy, no suspiciousness. We are totally open and honest and I tell my husband everything... from "I met a guy online that is interested, I'll check it out and see where it goes..." to "This guy is available on such and such date.... how do we want to work this?"

Thirdly, there are lots of hot guys out there that desire an "older woman" experience but are afraid of emotional attachments. This works perfectly for them. They get to experience an older woman who totally enjoys sex and can rock their world, and they are left with a great memory (or memories) for the future.


Is it accepted? Probably not in the "standard" sexual atmosphere... but everyone has their own kinks. This is not something I would have a discussion about with my friends or family ... it is strictly between my husband and I... (Like I said before... what happens behind closed doors... as long as it is consensual and lega... is no one else's business!)

Why wouldn't a woman want to do this? Many reasons:
1. Fear of a her husband's response: jealous husband (even though he enjoys the fantasy, the wife knows her husband has a tendency towards being jealous) or anger from husband, fear of feeling as if she betrayed him ... so many things could happen.
2. Inability to separate love and sex, afraid of emotional attachments to the "mister"
3. Simply no desire... she's happy where she is with what she's got and has no desire to try something else.

I am sure there are other reasons I will let other women continue to respond... (or rebuttal) ... LOL

these are simply my thoughts on the subject.

I am like the lady above ... more into the hotwife than cucking... but my husband enjoys the "idea" of what is happening. He does not ever watch... unless he is busy with the camera and focused on that. But he admits to being a bit cucked.
 
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The idea of it does nothing for me.


I'm sure it's accepted by people that enjoy it as shown in the posts above. I wouldn't care if my friends were friggin' their way on top of every guy in town, I'm simply not interested. I actually find the very idea of doing this myself repulsive.


If I were married I wouldn't want to have sex with other men. I'm not going to share my body with someone just for the sake of sex. I place a priceless treasure value on my body and it has got to be somebody special to even get near me. Random dudes rarely even turn my head.
 

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The reply by Fancypants hit just about every nail on the head. My husband and I have been having threesomes with another guy for many months and it's been fantastic. It's just not for everyone. By the way, I absolutely despise the word/term "cuckold". Besides being offensive just on its face, it's used too often and, most of the time, it just doesn't apply to the situation.:wink:
 

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The reply by Fancypants hit just about every nail on the head. My husband and I have been having threesomes with another guy for many months and it's been fantastic. It's just not for everyone. By the way, I absolutely despise the word/term "cuckold". Besides being offensive just on its face, it's used too often and, most of the time, it just doesn't apply to the situation.:wink:


Totally agree... we do not use it in our relationship... it does not truly fit us completely and really sounds demeaning~