Notaguru2 - here are what I perceive to be the basic principles of HWing:
1. It always starts with a couple in a good marriage, or as good as they know how to make it.
2. Some husbands have a long-time desire to see their wife being fucked by another man, or series of them. In many cases this seems to be linked to the husband's feeling of inferiority because of his small cock size or other 'less than manly' characteristics.
3. In most cases the women have long-since resigned themselves to accepting what is in the marriage for them sexually, in order to make family life work. All women have erotic fantasies, but keep them deeply hidden.
4. Then the husband begins 'working on' the wife to convince her that she is sexy and highly attractive to all men. He tries to get her to bring her fantasies of fucking other men out in the open. In many cases the pair begin to enjoy her fantasies as they make love. When this happens, the woman becomes at least twice as hot, wet and sexual as she ever was previously. Some very powerful forces are being unleashed in her. But often she is suspicious that the hub is doing this only to 'cover for' his own extra-marital sex activities. That is never the case in HWing, but the wife has to become convinced of it over a period of time.
5. Eventually, if the wife can bring her fantasies openly to the marriage bed, things really start to move from there. If hubby doesn't push too hard, the wife begins to realize she is a lot more sexual than she has admitted to herself. At some point she begins buying sexy clothes (not 'wife' clothes) and beginning to flirt in public, which she never would have done before she had her husband's full support and encouragement. The wife begins to realize that she is very hot and desirable to all men.
6. Eventually the wife reaches the point where she is willing to admit she would like to fuck another man. By then she is 'on board' as a 'virgin' HW. She usually seeks her husband's help and support in choosing a suitable candidate to take her 'HW virginity.' She leans heavily on the husband for security and a familiar comfort level.
The above process is long - it usually takes from a few months to, in some cases, many years. But after she makes the first sexual contact, her self-confidence usually rises enormously and she is off and running on a whole new life, with satisfactions she never would have dreamed of if it weren't for the hub's patient support and encouragement.
In 95% of cases, this actually makes the marriage stronger, altho different. Sometimes the wife withdraws all or most sexual contact with the husband, saying that her sexual life is now elsewhere. Most cuck their husbands to a greater or lesser degree, humiliating them by comparing their sexual inadequacies with the overpowering masculinity of her 'bull.' It takes a very special man to be able to not only live with this constant humiliation, but get enormous thrills from it.
In some cases a HW will develop a long-term relationship with a bull and limit her HW sexual activities to him. He then often becomes a 'third member of the couple,' and the three become good friends in many activites until it's bed time. Then the hub/cuck reads a book while the sexual pair are getting it on, often in the marriage bed. In other cases, the HW prefers to prowl; she enjoys the conquests of a series of 'new men.'
It is pretty well accepted that women don't really mature into their full sexual self until in their 40s or late 30s. By that time they are already in a marriage groove, usually with older children.They feel that they must keep up the 'good marriage, good family' picture, so they have no outlet for their new-found much higher degree of sexuality. So their fantasies remain very private and deeply hidden.
Then to be 'emancipated' into the fully sexual creature of their fantasies, and still keep the comforts of a secure home and marriage, is truly more than she would have dreamed about.
These are the basics of HWing as I understand them. How about comment from some HW's and their cuck husbands who are active in the life?
