Cuckolding Wives

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by Notaguru2, Jul 30, 2008.

  1. D_Eric_the_Bred

    D_Eric_the_Bred New Member

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    Isn't Paki a derogatory term used against Indians, just like the term Hindu is used against Sikhs to play off of ancient issues between the two cultures?

    If one is from Pakistan then being Paki is not an offensive term, no?
     
  2. D_Eric_the_Bred

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    I couldn't agree more!

    From what I understand being in the hotwife lifestyle and cuckolding are commonly mistake for the same thing. IMO the hotwife lifestyle (the lifestyle that we identify with) does not involve the humiliation.

    In our relationship I enjoy the opportunity to compete with the Bull in seeing who can make my wife cum more!!
     
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    I agree with you. I suppose that he's being exploited, even though he is often the one in charge. I've seen Bulls, cucks, and wives each initiate cuckold relationships. From my experience, it's mostly the men who initiate these relationships.

    Is being a Bull a fetish? Hell yes. I think that it's very kinky, and that's why so many people feel so strongly against it--especially women.

    Imagine a Bull visiting a couple in their bedroom. She has her wedding dress on and is laying back in her marriage bed. The hubby is sitting quietly near the bed. The Bull asks him to get up and open her legs. He tells him to get her wet with his mouth then to take off his wedding band and stick it into her, as deeply as it will go. Imagine the Bull telling the cuck to guide him into her so that she can get fucked by a "real cock" for the first time in her lift. Now imagine the Bull fucking her brains out, cumming all over her hubby's wedding band as she screams in delight.

    Not tell me that's not a fetish. :tongue:
     
  4. B_insideoutside

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    Well my wife is currently having 2 lovers, both of whom have very large cocks and she's starting to get emotionally attached to them as well as sexually/physically. It really is very hot to see someone love another person based purely on the amazing sex she has with him. We both agree that if in the course of sex, she gets pregnant to her lover, then she would keep the baby and we would assess our relationship/marriage to see whether it is best that we stay together or maybe she would find greater happiness with her lover. It is dangerous but also very hot and she is enjoying her life so much now she's practically glowing.. on the one hand she has me, someone who will always love her, and on the other hand she's having absolutely amazing sex and is somewhat even wishing that something good such as pregnancy comes as a result of the sex. This lifestyle isn;'t for everyone but I can't stop her happiness.
     
  5. Shrew

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    A very very interesting forum and content, this is one of my biggest fantasies and would desperately love to find a female to do the cuckold lifestyle.
     
  6. MrsSmallLovesBig

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    Well analyzed Gordon. It certainly has made my marriage stronger. And I love the lifestyle. And yes my husband does have a small penis. Although I have not chose to get into a "relationship" with any of my lovers. Points 1-6 are spot on.

     
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    Hey Gordon,

    I just found this thread and have scanned it but this has really given me something to think about. Thanks.

     
  8. DeeDee36dd

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    I find this a fascinating topic because we have had this fantasy, but never acted on it. I would possibly be up for trying it out once or twice, but now it makes me wonder if it would could eventually cause sex with my husband to be non-satisfying.
     
  9. Penis Aficionado

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    Maybe, maybe not. But would you refuse to try lobster because it might make a can of tuna seem less appetizing by comparison?
     
  10. DeeDee36dd

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    I'm afraid that's not a good analogy. A meal lasts for a moment, a marriage can last a lifetime. As great as sex is, I'm not sure it's worth ruining a successful marriage.
     
  11. DesertNymf

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    We have been in a cuckolding marriage for a number of years now. Our situation is a bit different. I've always been a "size queen" with a high sex drive. And I've cheated a lot in earlier relationships. When I met my husband, he offered me a lot of qualities that I would want in a marriage (successful, handsome, charming, very loving, etc). But, he also was very upfront about sex. He admitted to having a small penis (wow, I wasn't ready for how really small it was, though) and fantasized about cuckolding (whew, PERFECT!). Well, actually, I wasn't sure but we gave it a go and it turned out fantastic. My husband has a very skilled tongue which keeps me well satisfied in between lovers. Some of my lovers don't mind his presence and others prefer private romps.

    There are problems which can develop. The fantasy is great but the reality can cause severe jealousy (the husband just doesn't know how jealous he can become). We know of one couple that tried cuckolding and the husband felt so inadequate and jealous afterwards they ended up divorced. There are other folks we have known in the lifestyle and unfortunately, the wife "ran off" with the lover ... but in our opinion, this never works out long term for the wife.

    My husband is very active on a cuckold message board simply to offer advice to cuckold "wannabe's." It's different from swinging (which may be easier for a husband to deal with) because in cuckolding the wife and lover get to have sex and the husband is often a submissive observer. The husband can get very "needy" afterwards which can be a drain on the wife (especially if she is "sexed" out from a night of lovemaking). It is possible for the husband to participate ... so it depends on the husband's mindset (is he submissive? not well endowed? impotent?).

    I guess my point is that it can work. For some it is just about "spicing" up a dull sex life. For others, the husband's knowledge and participation is way better than the wife privately cheating on him (if she was going to cheat anyway). And still for others, it's better to keep it a fantasy or try swinging instead.

    Nymf
     
  12. Milbury

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    NSA sex, mostly. It's cheaper than trawling along in the clubbing scene, it allows you to meet interesting people, and (for the BTAs) it's a thrill to go where "only one man has gone before" (especially if he's noticeably smaller than you!)
     
  13. whatshisface

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    I love hotwives!
     
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    I don't know....I definitely think the cuck lifestyle is hot and kinky. I'd really get off on having sex with a woman who is married to a guy with a below average penis in length and width. Impregnating her would be even hotter. I guess I have a little of the Marquis De Sade in me....
     
  15. D_Tinker Ball

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    There's a subtle line among cuckolding experience and threesomes.
    The only difference, I think, is the man being completely passive.
    I'm saying this because many fantasies are in common. For example:
    With my gf I was going to try threesomes, and I must admit in the heat of the moment I'd probably have done these; not sure about licking creampies, but absolutely guiding him into her - this actually was one of reasons to do it.

    There's nothing about submission. I just know it's a fantasy for the both of us: she'd enjoy the 'filled' sensation and having two cocks at her disposal, I'd enjoy double penetration and the very fact of looking her fulfilling her pleasure.
    I think for cuckolding is the same; the man gets is own pleasure by looking at his woman pleasure. After all, when I have sex most of my pleasure comes from what I see.

    [If it's of any interest, I'm around 6.5"x6", and we were going to try this with a 8"]


    And this is why me and my gf after all never did threesomes. Someway we lost most of our interest in it - even if we still wonder, from time to time, about the feeling of guiding him in, licking her while he pounds her, or being filled by two men.

    Yes, I think the title of thread is misleading.

    Have you ever thought of using sexy toys/penis enhancers with your husband?
    It could seem you are enjoying more the risk of cheating than the penis sizes...
     
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    If I love a person... I don't want to share it with anyone...

    that is just me..
     
  17. lerotic

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    I've said before and i'll say it again : for me it's about pure masculinity. Having another man ask you to fuck his wife is one of the biggest compliments you can ever recieve.

    Then having QUALITY sex with his wife ( not degrading random banging ) , where she enjoys herself with a larger member and you know you are reaching parts and doing things her partner can't.

    People always get an ego nod (even if they don't admit it on here) when a woman says that you're big, and for another man to admit he can't compete and to ask you to have sex with his partner is off the chart and i have to say i think you perform as a sexual partner to a much higher level knowing that you want to leave her and him thinking about you.
     
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    I've said before and i'll say it again : for me it's about pure masculinity. Having another man ask you to fuck his wife is one of the biggest compliments you can ever recieve.

    Then having QUALITY sex with his wife ( not degrading random banging ) , where she enjoys herself with a larger member and you know you are reaching parts and doing things her partner can't.

    People always get an ego nod (even if they don't admit it on here) when a woman says that you're big, and for another man to admit he can't compete and to ask you to have sex with his partner is off the chart and i have to say i think you perform as a sexual partner to a much higher level knowing that you want to leave her and him thinking about you.
     
  19. Sven_Scarlett

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    I began cucking almost as soon as wife got us into nudism at north GA club 22 yrs ago. She met a hung guy young man and after some jealousy issues were resolved on my part, it's been enjoyable ever since. It's made me also appreciate nice big cocks and their wonderful creme as much as she does.
     
  20. JMeister

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    Sven_Scarlett,

    How old is your wife?
     
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